1、1大家好大家好2Maker:Guo Wanyao Li LidanThe East-West The East-West differences in etiquettedifferences in etiquette3ContentnThedefinitionofmannersnThecauseofmakingdifferencenThedifferenceofcommunicationmannersnThedifferenceoftablemanners4ThedefinitionofmannersnEtiquetteisnotonlythepeopleexchangerules,buta
2、lsoalanguage,andisakindoftools.5ThecauseofmakingdifferencenDifferentmannersmayresultinculturaldifferences.1.Cultural Background2.Different values 3.Individualism and Collectivism 4.Family 5.Nationalism 6Thedifferenceofcommunicationmanners71.Greeting and PartingnIn China,When people meet acquaintance
3、s or friends,we always say,“Have you eaten yet?”“What are you going to do?”nIn English,people often employ the following expressions to greet each other“Good morning/evening/afternoon.”“Fine day,isnt it?“”How is everything going?”,etc82.AddressingnInChina,thesurnamecomesfirstandthenthegivenname.nWhi
4、lewesternersnamesarewrittenandspokenwiththegivennamefirstandthefamilynamelast.9 East&WestnChineseuse“title(头衔)+surname(姓氏)”toaddress(致敬)theirsuperiororeldersratherthancallthemsurnames,whilethesuperiororelderscalltheaddresserstheirnames.otherwise,theaddressermaybeconsideredasillmannered,illeducatedor
5、rude.nInwest,Althoughtheyaredifferentinageandstatus,theycancalltheotherdirectly,namely,theirnames,evenfirstnames.Theydemonstrate(证明)thesenseofintimacy(亲密)andtheconception(概念)of”Everyoneiscreatedequal”103.Compliments and ResponsenFor example,if a hostess is complimented for her cooking skill,how she
6、will response in west and china?11East&WestnAChinesehostesswillapologizeforgivingyou“Nothing”.Shewillsay“Ijustmadesomedishescasuallyandtheyarenotverytasty.”nAnwesternhostessislikelytosay,”Oh,Iamsogladthatyoulikedit.Icookitespeciallyforyou.”12Thedifferenceoftablemanners 13VSVS14In ChinauMaketheelders
7、haveasitfirst.uWashyouhandsbeforeeachmeal.uDontspeaktooloudly.uYoudbetternoteattoofastortoomuch.Dontspeakwithyourmouthfulloffood.15In ChinaPut up the bowlDont stick the chopsticks upright in the bowl.Lay on16In the West 17In the West18The tablewares of western are:knife,fork,plate,napkin,goblet,service knife and soup spoon.19The tablewares of China are:chopsticks,bowl and spoon.20Thank you!