1、Lesson 3 WeddingsHave you ever been to a wedding party?Who was getting married?How many people were there?What time did it start/finish?What did they wear?What did people do?Did you have a wonderful time?in churchTo have and to hold from this day forward,for better,for worse,for richer,for poorer,in
2、 sickness and in health,to love and to cherish,till death do us part.Weddings从今天开始从今天开始,无论无论顺境、逆境顺境、逆境;无论无论贫穷还是富有贫穷还是富有;无无论健康还是疾病论健康还是疾病,都不能将我们分都不能将我们分开开,直到生命的最直到生命的最后一天。后一天。bridebridegroom best manGuess and matchf)a man who is about to get married or has just got marrieda)a friend of the groom who
3、helps him during the wedding ceremonyd)a woman who is about to get married or has just got marriedb)a party to celebrate the marriage ceremony of two peoplee)an important social or religious occasionc)a door or gate that you go through to enter a placeceremonyentrancewedding receptionbridebest manbr
4、idegroominvitationweddingceremonyentrancecrownwedding receptionwedding reception blossom candiesRead the text and try to remember what to do and what not to do.Indonesian weddingI can go without an invitation.I can attend the reception after the ceremony.I ought to put money into the box at the entr
5、ance of the reception.What to do:you oughtnt to go to the ceremony without asking first.you dont have to contribute a lot of money.you cant drink alcohol at the wedding reception.Indonesian women dont have to cover their heads.What not to do:Greek weddingbefore the wedding ceremony The bridegroom ha
6、s to ask the brides father for his daughters hand in marriage.during the wedding ceremony The best man should help put crowns made of flowers on the heads of the couple.A long silk ribbon that links the crowns is a symbol of a long and happy life for the couple.after the wedding ceremony The guests
7、can attend a wedding reception.Guests can throw dishes on the floor and put money on the brides dress for good luck.The party can last through the night.1.Indonesian families only invite people they have known for a long time.2.The reception is before the wedding.3.Guests usually give money as a pre
8、sent.True or falseTFF4.In Greek culture,the bridegroom has to ask for the brides hand in marriage.5.The bride and bridegrooms wedding crowns are made of gold.6.A piece of ribbon links the wedding crowns together.TFTLanguage points1.even if 即使即使 Even if you know the secret you should keep silent.即使即使
9、你知道这个秘密你知道这个秘密,你也应该保你也应该保持沉默。持沉默。2.close family近亲近亲 close friend亲密的朋友亲密的朋友 Sit close against the wall.紧靠墙坐着紧靠墙坐着(指距离近指距离近)close势均力敌的势均力敌的;几乎相等的几乎相等的 a close game一场不相上下的比赛。一场不相上下的比赛。3.contribute(oneself)to sth.contribution n make contribution to sth/sb捐献、捐赠；捐捐献、捐赠；捐(钱钱)(1)He contributed a lot of food
10、 and clothes to the poor.他为穷人他为穷人捐捐了很了很多的食品和衣服。多的食品和衣服。(2)献身于献身于 He contributed himself to doing research.他他投身于投身于研究工作。研究工作。(3)投稿投稿,撰稿。撰稿。He contributed poem to a newspaper.他向报社他向报社投投了一篇诗稿。了一篇诗稿。(4)贡献贡献 He made great contribution to the country.他为国家做出了巨大他为国家做出了巨大贡献贡献。He made great contribution to th
11、e invention of computer.他对计算机的发明做出了巨大他对计算机的发明做出了巨大贡献贡献。4.help put crowns made of flowers =help put crowns which are made of flowers 动词的过去分词可后置动词的过去分词可后置定语定语,也可以转换成被动语态的定语从也可以转换成被动语态的定语从句。句。Finally they found the pot buried underground.=Finally they found the pot which was buried underground.1.have t
12、o2.dont have to3.can4.cant5.ought6.ought not to not necessary necessary not allowed/not possible allowed/possible not advisable advisableMatch the words to their meanings.Complete the passage below with the following words:have to,dont have to,cant,can,ought to,ought not toWeddings are happy occasio
13、ns but when my sister got married last year,my mum and sister did not agree on anything.First It was the dress.My mum said,“Lisa,you _ wear a white dress,”and my sister replied,“I _ wear white.I _wear pink if I like.”have todont have tocanNext it was the invitations.My mumSaid,“Lisa,you really _ inv
14、ite Sally,”and my sister replied,“I _ Invite her-we have too many people already.”Then it was the flowers.My mum said,“you _ haveComplete the passage below with the following words:have to,dont have to,cant,can,ought to,ought not toought todont have tocantlilies.Ive heard that theyre bad luck,”and m
15、y sister replied,“of course I _have lilies!I dont believe theyre unlucky!”and then it was the cake!“You really _ have a fruit cake,Lisa,”said my mum,but Lisa wanted chocolate.Complete the passage below with the following words:have to,dont have to,cant,can,ought to,ought not to canought toFinally,I
16、told them that they really _ argue so much because it makes me hate weddings for life!ought not toComplete the passage below with the following words:have to,dont have to,cant,can,ought to,ought not toVocabulary:word buildingYou can often make nouns from verbs by adding the suffixes“tion”and“-ance”.
17、However,spellings may change somewhat.Make nouns from these verbs by competing the table.VerbsinvitereceiveattendentercontributeNounsinvitation receptionattendanceentrancecontribution1.Have you been to _Bens party?Yes,I received an _ to his party today.2.Jeremy,you didnt _ class this morning._ is ne
18、cessary if you want to pass!Use the verbs and nouns above to complete the sentences below.invitedinvitationattendAttendance 4.We had a lovely wedding _.We _ so many beautiful presents!5.You ought to _ money.But your _ doesnt need to be big.receptionhave receivedcontributecontribution3.The room has a
19、 secret _ you can only _ if you know where it is.entranceenterWhat happens at wedding in your town/city?Use modal verbs and expressions from the lesson to write about some of these things.clothes,reception,ceremony,flowers,presents,songs,food,speechesDiscuss our school rules in groups,by using the m
20、odals:have to/not have to,can/cant,should/shouldnt.For example:Presenter:Can you tell us our school rules?A:Yes you cant dye your hair colorful.B:.C:.Write eight sentences giving advice to a foreigner who is going to a wedding in your town/city.1、再长的路一步一步得走也能走到终点，再近的距离不迈开第一步永远也不会到达。2、从善如登，从恶如崩。3、现在决
21、定未来，知识改变命运。4、当你能梦的时候就不要放弃梦。5、龙吟八洲行壮志，凤舞九天挥鸿图。6、天下大事，必作于细；天下难事，必作于易。7、当你把高尔夫球打不进时，球洞只是陷阱；打进时，它就是成功。8、真正的爱，应该超越生命的长度、心灵的宽度、灵魂的深度。9、永远不要逃避问题，因为时间不会给弱者任何回报。10、评价一个人对你的好坏，有钱的看他愿不愿对你花时间，没钱的愿不愿意为你花钱。11、明天是世上增值最快的一块土地，因它充满了希望。12、得意时应善待他人，因为你失意时会需要他们。13、人生最大的错误是不断担心会犯错。14、忍别人所不能忍的痛，吃别人所不能吃的苦，是为了收获别人得不到的收获。15
22、、不管怎样，仍要坚持，没有梦想，永远到不了远方。16、心态决定命运，自信走向成功。17、第一个青春是上帝给的；第二个的青春是靠自己努力的。18、励志照亮人生，创业改变命运。19、就算生活让你再蛋疼，也要笑着学会忍。20、当你能飞的时候就不要放弃飞。21、所有欺骗中，自欺是最为严重的。22、糊涂一点就会快乐一点。有的人有的事，想得太多会疼，想不通会头疼，想通了会心痛。23、天行健君子以自强不息；地势坤君子以厚德载物。24、态度决定高度，思路决定出路，细节关乎命运。25、世上最累人的事，莫过於虚伪的过日子。26、事不三思终有悔，人能百忍自无忧。27、智者，一切求自己；愚者，一切求他人。28、有时候
23、，生活不免走向低谷，才能迎接你的下一个高点。29、乐观本身就是一种成功。乌云后面依然是灿烂的晴天。30、经验是由痛苦中粹取出来的。31、绳锯木断，水滴石穿。32、肯承认错误则错已改了一半。33、快乐不是因为拥有的多而是计较的少。34、好方法事半功倍，好习惯受益终身。35、生命可以不轰轰烈烈，但应掷地有声。36、每临大事，心必静心，静则神明，豁然冰释。37、别人认识你是你的面容和躯体，人们定义你是你的头脑和心灵。38、当一个人真正觉悟的一刻，他放弃追寻外在世界的财富，而开始追寻他内心世界的真正财富。39、人的价值，在遭受诱惑的一瞬间被决定。40、事虽微，不为不成；道虽迩，不行不至。41、好好扮演
24、自己的角色，做自己该做的事。42、自信人生二百年，会当水击三千里。43、要纠正别人之前，先反省自己有没有犯错。44、仁慈是一种聋子能听到、哑巴能了解的语言。45、不可能！只存在于蠢人的字典里。46、在浩瀚的宇宙里，每天都只是一瞬，活在今天，忘掉昨天。47、小事成就大事，细节成就完美。48、凡真心尝试助人者，没有不帮到自己的。49、人往往会这样，顺风顺水，人的智力就会下降一些；如果突遇挫折，智力就会应激增长。50、想像力比知识更重要。不是无知，而是对无知的无知，才是知的死亡。51、对于最有能力的领航人风浪总是格外的汹涌。52、思想如钻子，必须集中在一点钻下去才有力量。53、年少时，梦想在心中激扬
25、迸进，势不可挡，只是我们还没学会去战斗。经过一番努力，我们终于学会了战斗，却已没有了拼搏的勇气。因此，我们转向自身，攻击自己，成为自己最大的敌人。54、最伟大的思想和行动往往需要最微不足道的开始。55、不积小流无以成江海，不积跬步无以至千里。56、远大抱负始于高中，辉煌人生起于今日。57、理想的路总是为有信心的人预备着。58、抱最大的希望，为最大的努力，做最坏的打算。59、世上除了生死，都是小事。从今天开始，每天微笑吧。60、一勤天下无难事，一懒天下皆难事。61、在清醒中孤独，总好过于在喧嚣人群中寂寞。62、心里的感觉总会是这样，你越期待的会越行越远，你越在乎的对你的伤害越大。63、彩虹风雨后
26、，成功细节中。64、有些事你是绕不过去的，你现在逃避，你以后就会话十倍的精力去面对。65、只要有信心，就能在信念中行走。66、每天告诉自己一次，我真的很不错。67、心中有理想 再累也快乐68、发光并非太阳的专利，你也可以发光。69、任何山都可以移动，只要把沙土一卡车一卡车运走即可。70、当你的希望一个个落空，你也要坚定，要沉着！71、生命太过短暂，今天放弃了明天不一定能得到。72、只要路是对的，就不怕路远。73、如果一个人爱你、特别在乎你，有一个表现是他还是有点怕你。74、先知三日，富贵十年。付诸行动，你就会得到力量。75、爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切，却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。76、好习惯成就一生，坏习惯毁人前程。77、年轻就是这样，有错过有遗憾，最后才会学着珍惜。78、时间不会停下来等你，我们现在过的每一天，都是余生中最年轻的一天。79、在极度失望时，上天总会给你一点希望；在你感到痛苦时，又会让你偶遇一些温暖。在这忽冷忽热中，我们学会了看护自己，学会了坚强。80、乐观者在灾祸中看到机会；悲观者在机会中看到灾祸。
