1、quote a statisticquotationquotation mark “”temporarypermanentindifferent be indifferent toAfter studying this unit,you will be able to:understand friendship;know different types of friendship;present a viewpoint in an argumentation;apply conversion to translation;deal with dilemmas with friends at w
2、ork.1.I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.Abraham Lincoln与敌为友不就等于摧毁敌人吗？化干戈为玉帛，化敌为友！2.No permanent enemies,no permanent friends,and only permanent interests.没有持久的朋友，亦没有持久的敌人，只有持久的利益。这句话，长期以来被作为揭露西方资本主义国家唯利是图丑恶嘴脸的明证。3.The friendship between gentlemen appears indifferent but is pure like w
3、ater.Zhuangzi君子之交淡如水 4.Dont expect your friend to be a perfect person,but help your friend to become a perfect person.Thats true friendship!-Mother Teresa特蕾莎修女（Blessed Teresa of Calcutta，1910年8月27日1997年9月5日），又称作德兰修女、特里莎修女、泰瑞莎修女，是世界著名的天主教慈善工作者，主要替印度加尔各答的穷人服务。因其一生致力于消除贫困，于1979年得到诺贝尔和平奖。2003年10月被教皇约翰保罗
4、二世列入了天主教宣福名单Beatification，特蕾莎修女的名称也因此变为真福特雷莎修女（Blessed Teresa）。Proverbs related to friends.1.Maybe you forget those who laughed with you;But you will remember for ever those who shed tears with you.Kahlil Gibran和你一同笑过的人,你可能把他忘掉；但是和你一同哭过的人,你却永远无法忘记.纪伯伦2.Anyone can sympathize with the sufferings of a
5、friend,but it requires a very fine nature to sympathize with a friends success.Oscar Wilde谁都能够同情朋友的痛苦,但对朋友的成功也感同身受,就要有非常高贵的品格了.王尔德3.A true friend is one soul in two bodies.Aristotle真正的朋友是异体同心.亚里士多德4.Prosperity makes friends,adversity tries them.Publius Syrus富贵交友易,患难见真情.5.Publicity attracts friends,p
6、rosperity attaches friends,but adversity is the acid test of true friends.Seneca盛名招来朋友,成功来自朋友,而逆境乃真正友谊之试金石.塞涅卡6.There is no man that impart his joys to his friends,but that he joy the more;and no man that impart his grief to his friends,but he grieve the less.F.Bacon与朋友分享欢乐者,无不欢乐倍增；与朋友分享悲伤者,无不悲伤减半.培
7、根7.The friendship between gentlemen appears indifferent but is pure like water;the friendship between mean men is as sweet as wine.Confucius君子之交淡如水；小人之交甘若醴.孔子8.A man with few friends is only half developed;there are whole sides of his nature which are locked up and never been expressed.He cannot unl
8、ock them himself,he cannot even discover them.Friends alone can stimulate him and open him.Randolph Bourne朋友寥寥无几得人成长不全,他的本性中有不少被封闭的和从未显露的层面；他自己无法开启,甚至不会发现,唯有友人才能激励他,启发他.伦道夫.伯恩9.You shall judge a man by his foes as well as by his friends.Joseph Conrad你可以通过一个人的朋友,也可以通过一个人的敌人来判断他的为人.约瑟夫.康拉德10.Be slow i
9、n choosing a friend;slower in changer.Benjamin Franklin选择朋友要慎重,改换朋友更要慎重.本杰明.富兰克林11.A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your successes.Doug Larson真正的朋友从不追究你的过错,也不嫉妒你的成功.道格.拉森1.Friendship:Discussion Friendship is cherished by people in all cultures and there are a large numb
10、er of idioms and proverbs related to it in every language.Here is a list of English idioms of this kind:A friend in need is a friend indeed.A friend is easier lost than found.患难见真情。得朋友难，失朋友易。DiscussionA friend to all is a friend to none./A friend to everybody is a friend to nobody.A friend without f
11、aults will never be found.Birds of a feather flock together.Books and friends should be few but good.Even the best friends must part.滥交友者无友。没有十全十美的朋友。物以类聚，人以群分。读书如交友，应求少而精。朋友虽好，总有一别。Everything is good when new,but friends when old.False friends are worse than open enemies.Old friends and old wine ar
12、e best.东西是新的好，朋友是老的亲。虚伪的朋友比公开的敌人更坏。陈酒味醇，老友情深。To Wang Lun By Li Bai Im on board;Were about to sail,When theres stamping and singing on shore;Peach Blossom Pool is a thousand feet deep,Yet not so deep,Wang Lun,as your love for me.赠汪伦 李白乘舟将欲行，忽闻岸上踏歌声。桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情。Can you give some examples of great
13、friendship?Marx and Engels Marx valued Engels friendship so highly that he once said he loved and admired his friend very much.Engels had been aiding Marx who suffered greatly from bitter poverty.Were it not for the help Marx obtained from Engels,Marx would hardly have been able to overcome poverty
14、and he surely would not have left behind him a monument.relativerelevantcommitteecommunitycommunicatePart 11 Susan Harrison,my mother-in-law,died several months ago after a long and courageous battle with cancer.Like most of us,she was not famous.If you didnt know her,you probably didnt know of her.
15、She lived in the relatively small community of Savannah,Georgia.2 Yet she did some amazing things thereshe was the first ordained woman Deacon in Georgia,she founded a soup kitchen,and she helped create the Savannah Homeless Authority.In addition to raising three children and,some would say,a husban
16、d.3 One of the problems we faced after her death was finding a church big enough to hold the people who wanted to attend her funeral.We picked the largest one we could find,with seating for 600,and still many had to stand in the back and along the aisles.4 Susan had a particular quality that drew pe
17、ople in.It wasnt her accomplishments.It wasnt money.She had no access to famous or important people.She couldnt hire you;she wasnt a stepping stone.5 Susan was,quite simply,a really good friend,which is an art.To be a good friend,you have to give of yourself,but not so much that you lose yourself.Yo
18、u need to know what you want and pursue it while helping others achieve what they want.You need to have personality while making room for and supporting other peoples personalities.You need to care about and even love people you might disagree with(Im pretty sure she didnt vote for the same candidat
19、es as her husband).You need to be willing to give at least as much as,if not more than,you take.The introduction of Susan HarrisonWhat Susan did in her life.Many people wanted to attend her funeral.Susans unique characteristic to draw people in.How to be a good friend in Susans opinion?Depth Reading
20、 Part(Paragraghs 1-5)Q:From paragraph1 on page 28:who is Susan?She is the authors mother-in-law,who lived in the relatively small community of Savannah,Georgia.A:in-law:a relative by marriagefather-in-lawson-in-lawdaughter-in-lawDepth Reading Part(Paragraghs 1-5)Q:From paragraph2 on page 28:what kin
21、d of amazing things did Susan do?She was the 1st ordained woman Deacon in Georgia,she founded a soup kitchen,and she helped create the Savannah Homeless Authority.A:ordain:Vt 委任，任命，正式任命（某人）为牧师，授予（某人圣职）e.g.Mother Teresa was ordained a Catholic priest in 1948 by Pope Pius XII.特蕾莎修女在1948年被教皇庇护十二世任命为天主教
22、神父。流浪者之家流浪者之家Sentence analysis-Para 3Sentence analysis-Para 31)seating:n.座位;座位数e.g.The stadium(体育场)has been fitted with seating for 34,000 spectators（观众）.【拓展】seat:v.给提供座位；容纳下人with seating for 600,e.g.The stadium seats 34,000.2)该句可理解为：with a capacity of providing 600 seats for people。Depth Reading Pa
23、rt(Paragraghs 1-5)Q:From paragraph5 on page 28:How to be a good friend?You have to give of yourself,but not so much that you lose yourself.You need to know what you want and pursue it while helping others achieve what they want.You need to have personality while making room for and supporting other
24、peoples personalities.You need to care about and even love people you might disagree with.You need to be willing to give at least as much as you take.A:=have the freedom to get your own characteristics=at the same time,you shall also be tolerate enough of the characteristics of other people and even
25、 encourage them.A soup kitchen（施粥场）,is a place where food is offered to the hungry for free or at a below market price.Mr.Brown died yesterday,are you going to attend his funeral?布朗先生昨天去世了，你会去参加他的葬礼吗?。6.She had no access to famous or important people.have access to:（有权限）使用，接近e.g.Only the high ranked
26、 officers have access to this file.On the Internet,customers have access to aroundthe-clock customer care representatives who can help with their problems.Part 26 This is a pretty predictable recipe for happiness.Giving to othersa reliable way of fostering friendshipsmakes us happier than taking thi
27、ngs for ourselves.According to a research led by Dr.Elizabeth Dunn at the University of British Columbia,money can buy happiness as long as you spend it on other people.7 Researchers conducted three studies.First,they surveyed more than 600 Americans and found that spending money on gifts and charit
28、ies led to greater happiness than spending money on oneself.9 Finally,the researchers simply gave money to a number of people,instructing some to spend the money on themselves and others to spend the money on others.At the end of the day,those who spent money on others seemed to be happier.8 Then th
29、ey looked at workers who had just received bonuses and found that their happiness was not based on the size of their bonus but on the decision they made about what to do with whatever amount of money they received.Those who spent more of their bonus on others were happier than those who spent the mo
30、ney on themselves.A result of a research led by Dr.Elizabeth.The study on over 600 Americans and its result.The study on workers with bonuses and its result.The study on a number of people and its result.Depth Reading Part II(paragraphs 6-9)Q:according to paragraph 6 on page 28:Whats the result of t
31、he research led by Dr.Elizabeth Dunn?A:Money can buy happinessas long as you spend it on other people.Q:according to paragraphs 7-9 Who were the research object of the three studies?A:The object includes:more than 600 Americans;the workers who had just received bonuses;And a number of people who rec
32、eived money from the researchers.1.spending money on gifts and charities led to greater happiness than spending money on oneself.2.Those who spent more of their bonus on others were happier than those who spent the money on themselves.3.those who spent money on others seemed to be happierPart 310 So
33、 having friends and treating them generously is clearly a winning strategy in life.But what about business?11 If you watch even a single episode of any reality TV show based on a competitionThe Apprentice,Survivor,Top Chef,Americas Next Top Model,The Bachelor,The Amazing Race;it doesnt matter which
34、oneyoull hear a single phrase come up more often than any other:“Im not here to make friends!”Apparently many of the contestants believe that in order to win you cant be worried about how you affect others.As one contestant on The Apprentice so eloquently said,“Were not here to make friends.Its noth
35、ing personal.”Is that true?Are we better off being cutthroat than collaborative?12 Well,lets look at the data.If youre looking for a job youd better have friends.The number-one way people find new jobs is referrals by friends.13 Once youre on the job,having a best friend at work is a strong predicto
36、r of success.People might define“best”loosely(think of this as kindergarten where you can have more than one“best”friend),but according to a Gallup Organization study of more than five million workers over 35,56%of the people who say they have a best friend at work are engaged,productive,and success
37、ful while only 8%of the ones who dont are.14 And another remarkable study,spanning decades,revealed that friendships in high school were a strong predictor of increased wages in adulthoodto the tune of 2%per person who considered you a close friend.In other words,if in high school three people liste
38、d you as one of their closest same-sex friends,your earnings in adulthood would be 6%higher.This paragraph plays a role of connecting the preceding and the following.The contestants opinion on making friends in reality TV shows.The data of the number-one way people find a new job.The data and result
39、 of a Gallup Organization study on having a best friend.The data and result of another remarkable study on close friends.Depth Reading Part II(paragraphs 6-9)Q:according to paragraph 6 on page 28:Whats the result of the research led by Dr.Elizabeth Dunn?A:Money can buy happinessas long as you spend
40、it on other people.Q:according to paragraphs 7-9 Who were the research object of the three studies?A:The object includes:more than 600 Americans;the workers who had just received bonuses;And a number of people who received money from the researchers.Sentence analysis-Para 10Sentence analysis-Para 10
41、该句可以理解为：But what shall we do in business?Is it also true that having friends and treating them generously is clearly a winning strategy in business?But what about business?Sentence analysis-Para 11Sentence analysis-Para 11be better off:become better or richer.源于be well off（处境良好）比较级说明处境变化。情况好转，变得富裕 A
42、re we better off being cutthroat than collaborative?本剧可以理解为：相互碾压一定比相互合作的结果更好吗？e.g.She is well off;and she would be better off if she could let go off the trivial（琐碎的，微不足道的）.At least you are better off than those people who tried and failed.Sentence analysis-Para 12Sentence analysis-Para 12referrals:
43、n.推荐The number-one way people find new jobs is referrals from friends.【拓展】approve approval deny denial dispose disposal refuse refusal remove removal survive survival Depth Reading Part (paragraphs 10-14)Q:According to Para.13,Whats the result of a Gallup Organization study of more than 5 million wo
44、rkers over 35?A:56%of the people who says they have a best friend at work are engaged,productive,and successful while only 8%of the ones who dont are.该句是一个省略句该句是一个省略句其完整形式为：while only 8%of the ones who dont(say they have a best friend)are(engaged).Sentence analysis-Para 15Sentence analysis-Para 15该句
45、中who引导定语从句修饰people，是指“声称不是来交朋友的那些参赛者”。定语从句是由关系代词或者关系副词引导，用于修饰先行词的从句结构。本文中大量使用定语从句，用于区分限定各种不同行为的研究对象。如：workers who had just received bonusesThose who spent more of their bonus on others were happier than those who spent the money on themselves.(in Paragraph 8)the people who say theyre not here to mak
46、e friends dont win.those who spent money on others seemed to be happier.(in Paragraph 9)56%of the people who say they have a best friend at work while only 8%of the ones who dont are.(in Paragraph 13)1 学徒；徒弟 An apprentice is a young person who works for someone in order to learn their skill.E.g.I st
47、arted off as an apprentice and worked my way up.我从学徒开始干起，逐步上升。2VERB 使拜师于；使当的学徒 I was apprenticed to a builder when I was fourteen.14岁时，我拜一个建筑工人为师当学徒。cutthroat competitionI was a complete innocent in the cutthroat world of high finance.我在竞争中残酷的金融圈里算是个完全无知的人。1V 合作，协作(尤指著书或做研究)He collaborated with his
48、son Michael on the English translation of a text on food production.他和儿子迈克尔合作，把一篇介绍食品生产的文章译成了英文。2VERB 通（敌）;勾结(敌人)He was accused of having collaborated with the secret police.他被控与秘密警察勾结。.a collaborative research project.协作研究项目V.collaborateN.collaborationAdj.collaborative盖洛普公司由美国著名的社会科学家乔治.盖洛普博士于1935年
49、创立，是全球知名的民意测验和商业调查/咨询公司。教皇皮乌斯十二世教皇皮乌斯十二世(2010)Pope Pius XIIPart 415 The happy truth is that the people who say theyre not here to make friends dont win.Thats true for reality TV shows.Its true for business.And its true for life.In other words,its a pretty good bet that we really are here to make fri
50、ends.This paragraph comes to the theme:No matter in business or life,making friends will be very important for your success.Sentence analysis-Para 15Sentence analysis-Para 15该句中who引导定语从句修饰people，是指“声称不是来交朋友的那些参赛者”。定语从句是由关系代词或者关系副词引导，用于修饰先行词的从句结构。本文中大量使用定语从句，用于区分限定各种不同行为的研究对象。如：workers who had just r
