1、GreetingGreeting s s 1AS we all know,different countries have different ways of greetings.Lets see some examples.2Koreans bow to express respect and gratitude to others.朝鲜人打招呼行鞠躬礼，表示尊敬和谢意。34Thai,the male place hands in front of their head,female place at the chest.泰国人打招呼男士双手在额前，女士双手在胸前。56Japanese ta
2、ke their hats off when say hello,slightly bow and eyes down.日本人以脱帽子鞠躬来打招呼，稍微低头，眼睛向下。7Maori greeting is to touch Maori greeting is to touch the noses,the more and the noses,the more and the longer they touch,the longer they touch,the more intimate they are.the more intimate they are.毛利人碰鼻子来打招呼，次毛利人碰鼻
3、子来打招呼，次数越多，时间越久，表示越数越多，时间越久，表示越亲密。亲密。89Australian shake hands to say Australian shake hands to say hello.hello.澳大利人澳大利人打招呼打招呼是握手是握手。10Malaysia,touch their forehead Malaysia,touch their forehead or touch the chest for a while.or touch the chest for a while.马来西亚打招呼是两人双手交马来西亚打招呼是两人双手交窝，双手微触额头一下，双手窝，双手微
4、触额头一下，双手微触胸前一下。微触胸前一下。1112:Indonesian press:Indonesian press down chest to say hello to each down chest to say hello to each other with the right handother with the right hand:shake hands.:shake hands.印尼人印尼人熟人是用右手按住胸口互相问好，对熟人是用右手按住胸口互相问好，对一般人则以握手问好一般人则以握手问好。13FRANCEGenerally speaking,Generally speak
5、ing,between men,the between men,the main way of main way of greetings is to greetings is to shake hands and say shake hands and say hello.Between hello.Between ladies who are ladies who are familiar with each familiar with each other or between other or between men and women,they men and women,they
6、mainly take the mainly take the cheek kissing or cheek kissing or kissingkissing.14According to the different habits According to the different habits of the different parts,one will of the different parts,one will kiss twice,left face and right kiss twice,left face and right face;Others even more.f
7、ace;Others even more.Cheek kissing,people really just Cheek kissing,people really just kiss face by face,with sound of kiss face by face,with sound of mouth kiss.The kissing is mouth kiss.The kissing is directly kissing on the faces two directly kissing on the faces two times,they just do it.times,t
8、hey just do it.15France一般说来，男士之间，主要一般说来，男士之间，主要是边握手边打招呼。是边握手边打招呼。关系比较好的女士之间，或关系比较好的女士之间，或男女间，就主要采取贴面礼男女间，就主要采取贴面礼或亲吻礼。根据不同地方的或亲吻礼。根据不同地方的习惯，有人亲吻两下，左脸习惯，有人亲吻两下，左脸右脸；有人则更多。右脸；有人则更多。贴面礼，其实只是脸靠脸，贴面礼，其实只是脸靠脸，嘴巴发出亲吻的声音而已。嘴巴发出亲吻的声音而已。那亲吻礼就是直接脸上那亲吻礼就是直接脸上“啵啵”“”“啵啵”左右脸两下，左右脸两下，直接亲了。直接亲了。16南亚摇头礼In India,Pakis
9、tan,Bangladesh,Nepal,In India,Pakistan,Bangladesh,Nepal,Sri Lanka and other countries,people Sri Lanka and other countries,people often politely shake their heads when often politely shake their heads when they interact with each other.Their they interact with each other.Their salute common to expre
10、ss respect is:salute common to express respect is:shaking his head to the left is shaking his head to the left is agreed,respect or approval;Nodding agreed,respect or approval;Nodding means agree.This just contrary to means agree.This just contrary to China nod is yes and shake is no.China nod is ye
11、s and shake is no.17南亚摇头礼在印度、巴基斯坦、孟加拉、尼泊尔、斯里兰卡等国，人们相互交往时，往往彬彬有礼地摇头。他们的表敬礼俗是：向左摇头则表示赞同、尊重或认可；点头则表示不同意。这恰恰与中国的摇头不算点头算相反.18AfricanThe The common way of African greeting common way of African greeting is raising ones right hand and is raising ones right hand and hishis palm turnpalm turns s towards towa
12、rds the otherthe other one,one,the purpose is I dont grip stone the purpose is I dont grip stone in my hand.It in my hand.It meansmeans:no:no weapons.which is a symbol of weapons.which is a symbol of friendfriendlyly.非洲通行的打招呼方式非洲通行的打招呼方式-举起右手，手掌向著举起右手，手掌向著对方，目的是表示对方，目的是表示“我的手并没有握石头。我的手并没有握石头。”它是在表示：
13、它是在表示：“没有武器。没有武器。”是友好的象徵。是友好的象徵。1920To AmericansThey dont actually go around hugging and They dont actually go around hugging and kissing every one they meet.kissing every one they meet.Women may,of course,hug to each other Women may,of course,hug to each other tighttightly ly when they meet in good
14、will;And in when they meet in goodwill;And in some upper circles,a light kiss on the cheek some upper circles,a light kiss on the cheek is a common courtesy.But except with family is a common courtesy.But except with family members and close friends,Americans usually members and close friends,Americ
15、ans usually dont give out wholesale hugs.dont give out wholesale hugs.21To AmericansTo Americans。他们并不会到处拥抱、亲吻遇见的每一个人。当然，女性们可能会在见面时彼此紧抱一下以示友好；而且在某些上流社交圈里，轻吻对方的面颊是很普遍的礼节。但除了对家人与好友外，美国人通常不会经常随便拥抱他人。22In addition,not all Americans are used to huggers anyway.So dont wrap your arms around an American you
16、meet.He will probable feel uncomfortable.此外，并不是每一位美国人都习惯拥抱他人。因此，不要随便把手臂环住下一个你碰到的美国人。他可能会不舒服。23They like saying：-How are you How are you doingdoing？-Im doing good.-Im doing good.Hows everything Hows everything going?going?Whats up?Whats up?241.How do you do?你好。回答：How do you do?你好但这个美国人基本不用。2。How are
17、you?你好吗？这是美国人常用的，说的最多的！回答：Good,thank you.或 Not bad.或 I am ok.或 Pretty good.都是我很好的意思，紧接着可以反问别人，How are you?or How about you?3.Nice to meet you.或 It is good to see you.很高兴见到你。这个只在别人介绍认识新朋友的时候才用。回答：Nice to meet you,too.或 It is good to see you,too.或me too.我也是。254.Good morning(早上好）或 Good afternoon(下午好）或
18、Good evening(晚上好）回答：也一样。Good monring(早上好）或 Good afternoon(下午好）或 Good evening(晚上好）5.How are you doing?最近怎么样？这个是熟人之间才用的，第一次见面 不能用回答：Not bad(还行），I am not doing so well.（我过得不怎么好）6.How is everything?最近怎样，一切都好吧？也是熟人才用回答同上，也可以回：Pretty good.(很好）或 I am very well.(我很好)26CHINAD Daily greetingaily greeting:M Mo
19、st Chinese use ost Chinese use greeings such ashave you greeings such ashave you eaten?,where are you going?This eaten?,where are you going?This reflects the kind of intimacy between reflects the kind of intimacy between people.people.However,to Westerners,this way of However,to Westerners,this way
20、of greeting would make each other feel greeting would make each other feel sudden,awkward,or even unpleasant.sudden,awkward,or even unpleasant.27日常打招呼，中国人大多使用“吃了吗？”“上哪呢？”等等，这体现了人与人之间的一种亲切感。可对西方人来说，这种打招呼的方式会令对方感到突然、尴尬，甚至不快28In the West,the daily greeting they simply say the word Hello or over time,to
21、 say good morning!Good afternoon!Good evening!And when the Englishmen meet each other,they would say:“what a nice day!”在西方，日常打招呼他们只说一声“Hello”或按时间来分，说声“早上好！”“下午好！”“晚上好！”就可以了。而英国人见面会说：“今天天气不错啊！”29Meet etiquetteAmericans meet may or may not shake hands,just smiled,and say Hello,even if it is met for th
22、e first time,and the Chinese handshake is considered as a basic etiquette.But in China handshake and not too limited,while the Americans handshake is a certain etiquette.美国人见面时，不一定会握手，只要笑一笑，打个招呼就行了，即使是第一次见面，而中国人则视握手为一个基本礼节。但在中国握手并没有太多的限定，而美国人握手是有一定礼节的。30For axample,between men and women,the woman st
23、retch hand first,if the woman does not mean to shake hands,men can only nod or bow;between the elders and young people,the elder should lend a hand;between the superior and employees,the superior stretch hand first;between the host and guest,the host reach out to the guest first.And people should lo
24、ok at each other while shaking hands,and take off his or her gloves,otherwise it will be seen as impolite.31例如男女之间，女方先伸出手，若例如男女之间，女方先伸出手，若女方无握手之意，男子就只能点头女方无握手之意，男子就只能点头鞠躬致意；长幼之间由长辈先伸出鞠躬致意；长幼之间由长辈先伸出手；上下级之间，由上级先伸出手；手；上下级之间，由上级先伸出手；宾主之间由主人先伸出手。而且握宾主之间由主人先伸出手。而且握手时应注视对方，并摘下手套，否手时应注视对方，并摘下手套，否则会被视为不礼貌。则
25、会被视为不礼貌。32In America,when people meet,they like to call their names,this is a friendly gesture.Even at the beginning,they talk with each other with last names,but later they will renamed their names.But in China,people just like to be known as Manager,CEO,because it is a symbol of identity and statu
26、s.在美国，人们见面时喜欢直呼其名，这是亲切友好的表示，纵使交谈之初可能互相用姓称呼，但过一会儿就改称名字。而在中国，人们很喜欢被称为某某经理，某某总裁，因为这是身份与地位的象征。3334In America,people rarely use formal titles to call other people,official title only used by judges,senior government officials,military officers,doctors,professors and senior religious figures.在美国，人们很少用正式的头
27、衔称呼别人，正式的头衔只用于法官、高级政府官员，军官，医生，教授和高级宗教人士。35It is important that Americans never use administrative functions,such as secretaries,managers,principals,and other titles to call someone else.值得注意的是，美国从来不用行政职务如局长、经理、校长等头衔来称呼别人。36见面礼节见面礼节 In addition,when talking with people,we should remember that we must
28、nt talk about personal matters,such as age,marital status,income,religion and so on.另外，在与人交谈时，切不可谈及个人的私事，诸如年龄、婚姻、收入、信仰等等。看到别人买的东西不可问其价格；37When we see people buying things we should not ask prices;if you see others come back,nor asked where he was going or where he comes from,otherwise you will be di
29、sgusted.Americans often use nose into peoples private life came this sentence to indicate their contempt to the man who asked them.如果看到别人回来，也不能问他去哪儿了或者从哪里来，否则就会遭人厌恶，美国人常用“鼻子伸到人家私生活里来了”这句话来表示对提问人的轻蔑。38However,in china,people are not aware of the personal boundaries,people will not care for general un
30、derstanding of others lives.而在中国，人们对个人隐私的界限远没有这么深刻，人们并不会在意别人对自己的生活作一般了解。39But when Chinese and Americans are dealing with each other,the Chinese people seem to ask Americans very ordinary family situations,Americans are likely to think that you violated his privacy and have ulterior motives,thus one
31、 business might be called off.但在中国人与美国人打交道时，在中国人看来很普通地问对方一些家庭情况，美国人就很可能认为你侵犯了他的隐私，别有用心，一桩生意很可能就这样泡汤了。40In ChinaIn ChinaNod is the most common meet Nod is the most common meet etiquette,in the theater,etiquette,in the theater,venue,Banquet Hall and in venue,Banquet Hall and in public places public pl
32、aces wherewhere it it is not is not appropriate to walk freelyappropriate to walk freely.When fWhen friends meet from riends meet from distance,they could use their distance,they could use their right hands and a nod as a right hands and a nod as a greeting,greeting,theythey could do this could do this when they meet when they meet inin the street.the street.点头礼 是最普通的见面礼节，在剧场、会场、宴会厅等不宜随意走动的公共场所，朋友远距离相见，可用右手打招呼并点头致意，外出时隔着马路相遇也行此礼。41这样，现在是不合适的这样，现在是不合适的 X X应该学习如此，这般4243
