1、What every body is sayingTell you how to recognize liesThere is a reporter said that people tell a lie on average of ten minute talkingvSo how to recognize others lie is importantvYou should realize that humansbody can tell truth.Freezing behaviorvFreezing behavior is a kind of action which is happe
2、ned in dangerous situationvOur brain will let our body freezing when we meet dangerJust like turtle effect:a kind of limit heads freezing action,reflect unconfident.Escape behaviorvWhen you meet dangerous your brain let your body freezing first,then your brain will let you run away to let you far aw
3、ay from dangervBut in morden society,distant limit our brain use escape behavior,we may try to keep distant to face somethings we dislikeJust like these picturesWhen we have different ideas in conversationJust like these picture,people will let their body lean on far away from each other when they h
4、ave different ideas in conversationFight faction.vWhen people fall into dangerous situation and the freezing action or escape action cant work out they will fightvWith the time goes by,we have the ability of change fight action to be angerJust you can feel this man is very angrycomfort behavior The
5、purpose of the comfort behavior is where we meet unpleasant or emotional fell to bust a time to calm down.And these behavior is we can interpret the.vFor example children suck their thumb action,bite pencil,chewing gum,finishing thy skirts,finishing tie,touch neck,touch chin,friction forehead,etcnec
6、k comfort action-touch chinNeck comfort action-finishing tieVoice comfort behaviorvWhistle is also a kind of comfort behavior,some people will to himself,the purpose is to alleviate the pressure,I former roommate in playing online games when they would loudly of soliloquize to adjust pressurevPencil
7、 knock desktop,use your fingers to play rhythm is comfort behaviorToo much yawnvSometimes,we will see some pressure in the state of the people kept yawning.In fact,yawn is not only a way to take a deep breath,when we feel nervous or pressure,will feel dry mouth,yawning will pressure transmission to
8、the salivary glands,then mouth inside and outside structure of the rebound will force salivary gland release moisture,to ease the anxiety caused by dry mouth,this kind of circumstance,people yawn not because didnt sleep well,but because the pressure.Rub leg movementvWhen people feel pressure or nerv
9、ous,they will put on hand rub legs to rub to.So,they first will hand in the table below,this is a very accurate response unwell or uneasy signalJust like that manPupil changeHappiness,Contempt&SurpriseBlink frequency Blinking originally is a very natural physiological reaction,in normal and relaxati
10、on condition,people every minute blink 6 8 times,each time close their eyes for no more than 1/10 SEC.However,the sudden increase or slow blink frequency,then often implies that people psychological some change.When people feel nervous or pressure,blink frequency will increase quickly.When somebody
11、in the public was asked about some tough problems,although words still calm,but constantly blink eyes betrayed him.On the contrary,when people feel tired,boring or superior to others,blink frequency will become very slack,even close your eyes would not open.This is to someone they lose interest in s
12、ignal,subtext is:your word is too boring,I dont want to listen to!Ones SightIn interpersonal,communication between two men from each others eye contact.Therefore,each other we look at how long,or their eyes to where,often reveals the inner psychological activitiesa long time of stared at implied def
13、iant taste,give a person a kind of insecuritya short time gaze is implied bored or the taste of cowardiceRaise eyebrowsRaise your eyebrows is a knee-jerk reaction,as early as in ancient times,humans will use this position to distance slightly distant people say hello,the aim is to attract each other
14、s attention,tell each other are compliments to him.Eye movementScientists tell us that human thinking,different areas of the brain are activated,and this will lead to the eye movement in different ways.DOWN&RIGHTLEFT&UPRIHGT&UPSaid people in the recall a true pictureSaid people in mind to create a n
15、ew pictureLEFTSaid people in the recall some voiceRIGHTSaid people are creating new soundssaid people in the recall some feelingMouth vMouth is an emotional catharsis(情感宣泄)important channelvour facial muscles(面部肌肉)will be as feelings changes,especially the eyes and mouth muscles around the most obvi
16、ous.vdifferent the movements of the mouth reverse reflects the different psychological activities.bite lipsvBite lips is actually a way to release the pressurev when people feel anger or resentment,they went nowhere to vent,often in order to express their inner discontent and nervous.For example,the
17、 late princess Diana will often bite lips.Just like that manFox lick lips(舔嘴唇)vWhen people face a lot of pressure,they usually feel thirsty.So they will continuously lick his lips with the tongue,in order to make it more moist(湿润).In the same way,when people feel uncomfortable or mental tension(思想紧张
18、),also will use tongue repeatedly friction lips,comforted herself,and try to make themselves calm down.Just you can see thatCovering mouth with handvCovering mouth with hands common happened in children.When the children lied later,they may immediately with one hand or both hands over his mouth,seem
19、s to be to in order to take control of their own mouth,dont let it say it shouldnt say.vAs adults,people rarely make so exaggerated(夸张的)move.However,whenever they lied,or said something wrong they will still reach out to mouth,seems to be to take what you just said.Not only,they raised their hands b
20、ut not put it in the mouth,but in lightly across the bridge of the nose,and ultimately to in situ.Just like thatPout(撅嘴)vWhen a mans lips pouted forward,often showed that he be discontent or different opinionsvWe often see,at a meeting,when a person do not agree with other peoples opinion,often can
21、make such a move.Just like thatButvIt is important to note that,in addition to be discontent outside,pouty action also commonly seen in patients with love peevish women.Therefore,specific analysis,must be connected with different body language and scene to make judgment,cannot treat as the same.curl
22、 lip(撇嘴)vWhen people are not happy,often make lower lip thrust forward,the corners of the mouth drooping action,is also the I say curl lip.And the corners of your mouth turned up say joy instead,curl lip movements express a kind of negative emotions.When people feel sad,despair,anger or despise,disd
23、ain,they face will emerge out this kind of expression.Just like thatPursed lips(抿嘴)vWhen people face pressure,a common response is to hide or tightening his lips.Along with the more the greater pressure to,originally full lips will gradually become flat,and ultimately become a straight line.At this
24、time,peoples feeling mood and confidence is also dropped to the bottom.v lips tightly sip is self inhibition performance,just as it is in the brain tell me closed mouth,dont let anything into the body.This action will be the anxiety of love wild open without involuntary discharge of urine.Just like
25、thatLeg and feetvLeg and feet are the most honest parts of our bodyLeg had light swayvThe trunk keep still,legs and feet light sway or jitter,such action is usually people feel discomfort or long a performance.In fact,no matter in the airport terminal,conference room or dating site,we are easy to se
26、e such action.When people heart pins and needles,or to something unhappy with progress,legs and feet light sway will help them relieve stress.HowevervHowever,shaking and sometimes may also be joy puts heart into a man results.For example,table caught a good hand player,although face no smile,but the
27、 ability to walk of shaking but revealed he was mood.However,once the ability to walk into a kicking shaking,it shows that the parties are likely to encounter the negative or not happy thing.with legs apartvNo matter standing or sitting,with legs apart is a defending act of private space,a symbol of
28、 self-confidence,authority and control.In fact,a lot of people feel pressure or threat,will be through the separate legs to emphasize his sphere of influence.For example,the police patrol the streets through separate legs to show his majesty and sacred and inviolable.vSo,for careful observers,with legs apart is a strong signal that some things are prepared,or trouble really want to come.This time,his legs collapsed is a good way to ease the tension.