1、unit 9 Cultivationunit 9 Cultivation教养、修养教养、修养高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社1.What will you do to make your friends smile and feel happy? 你会做什么让你的朋友微笑和你会做什么让你的朋友微笑和感到快乐？感到快乐？2.Do you sometimes lose your temper when you are in trouble? 当你当你遇到麻烦遇到麻烦的时候，你的时候，你是否是否也也会发脾气？会发脾气？3.How can you get on well with others?
2、你怎么能和别人相处得好？你怎么能和别人相处得好？高教社高教社There was once a little boy with a bad temper. He often had fights with his friends. 从前有个小男孩脾气不好，他经从前有个小男孩脾气不好，他经常和朋友打架常和朋友打架高教社高教社高教社高教社One day,his father gave him a bag of nails and told him to hammer a nail into the fence every time he lost his temper. The boy listen
3、ed to his father and did what his father told him to do .有一天，他的父亲给了他一袋钉子，告诉有一天，他的父亲给了他一袋钉子，告诉他每次他发脾气的时候都要把钉子钉进栅他每次他发脾气的时候都要把钉子钉进栅栏里。男孩听了他父亲的话做了他父亲叫栏里。男孩听了他父亲的话做了他父亲叫他做的事他做的事高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社 The first day, the boy drove 17 nails into the fence. Then the number of nails became less and less in the f
4、ollowing days. The boy found that it was easier to keep his temper than to drive the nails into the fence. 第一天，男孩把第一天，男孩把17根钉子插进栅栏。接下根钉子插进栅栏。接下来的日子里钉子的数量越来越少。这个男来的日子里钉子的数量越来越少。这个男孩发现保持脾气比钉钉子更容易孩发现保持脾气比钉钉子更容易高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社Finally, the day came when the boy didnt lose his temper at all. He told hi
5、s father about it and his father asked him to pull out one nail each time he was able to keep his temper. 终于有一天，男孩没有发脾气。他告诉父终于有一天，男孩没有发脾气。他告诉父亲这件事，他父亲要求他每次发脾气时都亲这件事，他父亲要求他每次发脾气时都要拔出一个钉子。要拔出一个钉子。高教社高教社高教社高教社 The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were
6、 gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence . 日子一天天过去，小男孩终于告诉父亲，日子一天天过去，小男孩终于告诉父亲，所有的钉子都不见了。父亲牵着儿子的手所有的钉子都不见了。父亲牵着儿子的手，领着他来到栅栏前，领着他来到栅栏前高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社高教社He said, “You have done well, son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same as it was before .
7、 When you say some words in anger, your bad temper will leave a scar just like the hole. 他说：他说：“你做得很好，孩子，但看看篱笆你做得很好，孩子，但看看篱笆上的洞。篱笆永远不会和以前一样。当上的洞。篱笆永远不会和以前一样。当你生气地说几句话时，你的坏脾气就会你生气地说几句话时，你的坏脾气就会像洞一样留下疤痕。像洞一样留下疤痕。高教社高教社高教社高教社Even if you say youre sorry, the wound is still there. If you hurt a person wi
8、th words, the wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are rare jewels. They make you smile and feel happy. So never hurt your friends.”即使你说对不起，伤痕还在那里。如果你即使你说对不起，伤痕还在那里。如果你伤害一个人的话，造成的伤痕和身体上是伤害一个人的话，造成的伤痕和身体上是一样的。朋友是稀世珍宝。他们让你笑，一样的。朋友是稀世珍宝。他们让你笑，感到快乐。所以永远不要伤害你的朋友。感到快乐。所以永远不要伤害你的朋友。”高教社高教社高教社高教社 Sinc
9、e then the boy had never fought with his friends. He learned how to get on with others and he never lost his temper again.从那以后，男孩就再也没有和朋友打架了从那以后，男孩就再也没有和朋友打架了。他学会了如何与别人相处，而且从不发。他学会了如何与别人相处，而且从不发脾气。脾气。高教社高教社高教社高教社1.What did the father ask the little boy to do each time he lost his temper?The father a
10、sked his son . every time .2.How many nails did the boy hammer into the fence the firsrt day?The first day, the boy .to hammer a nail into the fencehe lost his temperdrove 17 nail into the fence高教社高教社3.Why did the boy stop driving the nails into the fence later?Because the boy .4.What did the father
11、 ask him to do each time he was able to keep his temper?The father asked his son each time .didnt lose his temper at allto pull out one nailhe was able to keep his temper高教社高教社5.Did the boy pull out all the nails? .6.What does the story tell us? . . .Yes,he didThe story tells us that friends are rar
12、e jewels ,that they make us smile and feel happy and that we should never hurt our friends .高教社高教社in anger keep lose not.at all leadthe same as as.as. get on with1.The teacher asked me , “Why are you late again?”2.Our classroom is large yours.3.My mother asked me my room clean.in anger as asto keep高
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14、ing on with高教社高教社1.Even if we are angry , we have to . (控制自己不发脾气控制自己不发脾气).2.Why do you sometimes . (发脾气发脾气) these days? 3.The boys never . (和女生打架和女生打架) in our class. control yourself and keep your temperlose your temperhave fights with girls高教社高教社4.Their bedroom . (看起来和以前不一样了看起来和以前不一样了) .5.This book
15、 is (一点儿都没趣一点儿都没趣) 6.Do you know . (怎样与同学相处吗？怎样与同学相处吗？) .doesnt look the same as beforenot interesting at allhow to get on with your classmates?高教社高教社1. What you (do) now? I (play) computer games.2.My father (work) in this company for 5 years now.3.When I saw him , he (learn) new English words.are d
16、oingam playinghas workedwas learning高教社高教社4.I was very glad to hear this because I . (look) forward to seeing my grandpa.5. Where you (go) ? I (go) to the airport to meet my boss.6.Sorry , I cant go with you now . I . (not finish) my homework.was looking are goingam goinghavent finished高教社高教社I somet
17、imes lose and say .in anger . My bad temper hurt .badly . I want to make friends , but I dont know how to . After I . “Food for Thought” , I think I have a better idea of that now. my tempersome wordsdoLi Leiwith himget on with himread高教社高教社 When we are in trouble , we have to . When we are in angry
18、 , we have to . If your friend is angry with you ,you should .help each otherkeep our temperlose your temper高教社高教社You should think about why your friend .We have to way to solve the problem . It is important to konw how to well with others and never . Your smile can make .is angryfind aget onhurt othersthem happy
