1、Module 1Small TalkAppreciation of a clip of the American TV series Friends 六人行六人行Where are they chatting?In a coffee bar.Is it a formal conversationor an informal one?Informal(small talk)How to make small talk?Lets find out some tips from the passage on page 2!Read the passage and decide what kind o
2、f book it is from.A.an English teaching book B.a busyness course C.a book which tells you what to do at social events D.a book to help you prepare for a speaking examinationReading Comprehension ISkimmingSkimming1.To show you are a good listener,which of the following you mustnt do?Use encouraging n
3、oises and gestures smiling,nodding,saying“uh-huh”and “OK”,etc.B.Talk as much as possible.C.Ask for some information to show you are interested in the topic.D.Keep looking at the other persons eyes.ScanningScanningReading Comprehension IVChoose the best answer.2.According to the passage,which skill d
4、o most people lack during communication?A.listening B.speaking C.body language D.eye contact3.If you want to impress people,youd better not do the following things EXCEPT _.A.use encouraging noises and gestures,and occasionally ask for more information to show your interestB.look at your watch frequ
5、entlyC.talk too much about yourselfD.change the subject or finish other peoples sentences for them4.It can be inferred from the text that _.A.if you talk to a man about his private things,he will like talking to youB.If you talk to a man about the topic that he is interested in,he will have a lot to
6、 talk with youC.The man likes talking to you for hours if you talk to him about the topics you are interested in.D.People are always interested in what they do not know 5.Which of the following can be drawn from the text?A.It is important for you to remember different social rules if you go to a soc
7、ial occasion in another country.B.Listening is a skill which is as important as speaking.C.Learning some good social skills and having a good preparation for the topics can help you have a good conversation at any social events.D.When you are talking to a man,youd better talk as much as possible.Ans
8、wer the questions on P3 Exercise 31.Yes,they should prepare some topics to talk about.suggested answers:2.They are not impressive.3.Look at your watch;yawn(sigh,look away,change the subject,finish other peoples sentences).4.To show that your are listening.5.If you talk to a man about the topic that
9、he is interested in,he will have a lot to talk with youChoose the best answers!1.Whats the passage mainly about?A.The introduction to Esther.B.Esthers wrong kind of small talk.C.Esthers stories.2.Whats the authors attitude towardsEsther?A.negative B.positiveC.angryD.uninterestedFinish the exercise 5
10、 on Page 12!Key:d a c a b How good are you social skills?1.交更多朋友交更多朋友2.缺乏自信缺乏自信3.对对紧张紧张4.社交技能社交技能5.预先做准备预先做准备6.为为做准备做准备7.回忆起回忆起8.一个双向的过程一个双向的过程9.包括做某事包括做某事10.保持良好的保持良好的 眼神交流眼神交流 make more friendslack confidencebe nervous aboutsocial skillsdo advance planningprepareforthink ofa two-way processinvolve
11、 doingkeep good eye contact How good are you social skills?11.把目光从把目光从移开移开12.准时准时13.另外另外14.某一种颜色某一种颜色15.弄清楚弄清楚 look away fromon timein additiona certain colourfind out The Wrong Kind of Small Talk1.至少至少2.说错话说错话3.完全不懂完全不懂4.社交的基本规则社交的基本规则5.结果是结果是6.并非偶然并非偶然7.在一个场合在一个场合8.没有道歉没有道歉9.体重上升体重上升10.对对谨慎谨慎 at l
12、eastput ones foot in ones mouthhave a complete absence ofthe basic rules of social communicationas a consequenceit is no coincidence thaton an occasionwithout an apologyput on a little weightbe cautious aboutThe Wrong Kind of Small Talk11.经历经历12.使某人振作使某人振作13.新发型新发型14.宁愿不做某事宁愿不做某事15.要么要么要么要么16.多巧合啊！多
13、巧合啊！17.对对谦虚谦虚18.劝阻某人做某事劝阻某人做某事19.在在的周年纪念日的周年纪念日20.与与结婚结婚 go throughcheer sb upa new haircutwould rather not doeitherorwhat a coincidencebe modest about discourage sb from doingon the anniversary of marry sbMaking friends in the USA1.被指望做某事被指望做某事2.被被限制限制3.发生发生4.注意注意5.敢做敢做6.带头带头7.导致导致8.几个几个9.对对表示尊重表示尊
14、重10.炫耀炫耀 be expected to dobe defined by take placebe aware ofdare to dotake the leadlead toa couple ofrespect for sbshow off(forgive)3.(P3)Dont the person whos talking to you.模仿：当你与别人交谈的时候，请保持眼神交流，而不要把目光移开。4.(P8)Esthers major shortcoming was that she small talk.模仿：我们主要的缺点是我们根本不懂当与别人聊天的时候应该选择什么样的话题。5
15、.(P8)Esther never other peoples feelings.模仿：我们要小心文化差异，因此，最好避免政治，宗教以及其它敏感(sensitive)的话题。6.(P11)When someone talks,everyone is expected to listen,the persons speaking may be.模仿：年龄和收入是非常私人的事情，不管你有多好奇，不要指望别人给你准确(accurate)的答案。Age and income are very private matters,and dont expect people to give you an a
16、ccurate reply,curious you are.7.(P11)But what we dont like is silence,and almost the embarrassment of a quiet party and silent guests.模仿：但是，我们最需要的事信心，几乎任何事情都会比缺乏与你不认识的人交谈的信心要强。But is confidence,and almost lacking the confidence to talk to people you dont know.外研版英语选修六外研版英语选修六Module1-Reading-and-writ
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19、和包容它涉及尊重和包容(forgive)别人。别人。当你与别人交谈的时候，请保持眼神交流，而不要把当你与别人交谈的时候，请保持眼神交流，而不要把目光移开。目光移开。我们主要的缺点是我们根本不懂当与别人聊天的时候我们主要的缺点是我们根本不懂当与别人聊天的时候应该选择什么样的话题。应该选择什么样的话题。我们要小心文化差异，因此，最好避免政治，宗教以我们要小心文化差异，因此，最好避免政治，宗教以及其它敏感的话题。及其它敏感的话题。年龄和收入是非常私人的事情，不管你有多好奇，不年龄和收入是非常私人的事情，不管你有多好奇，不要指望别人给你准确的答案。要指望别人给你准确的答案。但是，我们最需要的事信心，几
20、乎任何事情都会比缺但是，我们最需要的事信心，几乎任何事情都会比缺乏与你不认识的人交谈的信心要强。乏与你不认识的人交谈的信心要强。howeverfor exampleof whichFive sentences only!外研版英语选修六外研版英语选修六Module1-Reading-and-writingModule1-Reading-and-writing（共（共3131张张PPTPPT）外研版英语选修六外研版英语选修六Module1-Reading-and-writingModule1-Reading-and-writing（共（共3131张张PPTPPT）外研版英语选修六外研版英语选修六
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