1、20212021年春季深圳市线上课程年春季深圳市线上课程高一英语高一英语教学材料：外研版高中英语新教材必修第三册教学材料：外研版高中英语新教材必修第三册教学内容：教学内容：Unit 1 Knowing me, knowing youUnit 1 Knowing me, knowing you第四课时：第四课时：Interpersonal relationships & saying no Interpersonal relationships & saying no politely politely Feb.23,20211. Is it important to build good 1.
2、 Is it important to build good interpersonal relationships?interpersonal relationships?2. Is it easy to build good interpersonal 2. Is it easy to build good interpersonal relationships?relationships?3. Are there any golden rules to build 3. Are there any golden rules to build good interpersonal rela
3、tionships?good interpersonal relationships?When the sun is out, the stars are gone. Tips for good interpersonal relationshipsTip 1 Tip 2 Tip 3Tip 4Tip 5Tip 6 apologizecriticizeforgivejudgecomplainlie1.1. Im really sorry. I didnt mean it.Im really sorry. I didnt mean it.2.2. Youre so selfish.Youre so
4、 selfish.3.3. I know you are sorry. Its OK. Dont I know you are sorry. Its OK. Dont worry about it.worry about it.4.4. I can tell he is not easy to get along I can tell he is not easy to get along with.with.5.5. I dont want to wait for him all the time.I dont want to wait for him all the time.6.6. M
5、y pet parrot flew away with my homework.My pet parrot flew away with my homework. Discuss what you react in different situations and judge it Right or Wrong and put forward reasonable tips. Situation 1You forgot your best friends birthday, and you feel bad about it.ReactionReaction I think my best f
6、riend must be angry with me. She wont forgive me. I really hate myself to make such a silly mistake. TipTipWe neednt blame ourselves too much. Try to forgive yourself and you can forgive others.Situation 1You forgot your best friends birthday, and you feel bad about it.ReactionReaction I am really s
7、orry to tell you that I didnt go I am really sorry to tell you that I didnt go to celebrate your birthday personally and missed to celebrate your birthday personally and missed a wonderful chance to enjoy myself with you. Last a wonderful chance to enjoy myself with you. Last week, our school held a
8、n important English speech week, our school held an important English speech contest. I was so busy writing a draft and contest. I was so busy writing a draft and practising speech that I forgot your birthday. Now practising speech that I forgot your birthday. Now I hope you could understand and for
9、give me.I hope you could understand and forgive me.TipTipApologize to your friend sincerely Apologize to your friend sincerely and state your reasons honestly.and state your reasons honestly.Situation 2Your neighbor always makes a lot of noise late at night. You cannot stand it.ReactionReactionHe is
10、 such a rude and selfish man. I hate him. I will make noise to bother him, too. TipTipDont judge someone too quickly. It takes time to understand a person. Dont always complain about people or take revenge. Try to look on the bright side. Situation 2Your neighbor always makes a lot of noise late at
11、night. You cannot stand it.ReactioReaction nI want to talk about something honestly with you. I went to bed at around 10 oclock. But the noise you make at night really bothered me. I hope you can pay a little bit attention to that. Thank you very much. TipTipTry to communicate openly with your neigh
12、bor. Dont always keep things to yourself.Situation 3Your classmate borrowed a book from you and lost it.ReactionReactionHe must have done it on purpose. I shouldnt have lent it to him before. I will tell my classmates not to trust him any more. TipTipTry to forgive someone when they apologize. It is
13、 not easy for anyone to say sorry.It is not a good idea to criticize someone in front of others. This can cause embarrassment. Situation 3Your classmate borrowed a book from you and lost it.ReactionReaction It doesnt matter. You dont have to feel bad about it. I have read it through. I just sent the
14、 book to you as a gift. TipTip. .It is a good idea to be generous with others. This can help create a lasting friendship.Situation 4Your friends have asked you to watch a boxing match with them, but you dont like boxing. ReactionReactionit is really embarrassing to refuse him. I just have to pretend
15、 to like the boxing match.TipTipDont put on a mask to please others. It will hurt your personality. You have the right to say no when you dont want to. You dont have to worry that others will be unhappy. They should be responsible for their feelings. But you need to be polite and honest enough.Situa
16、tion 4Your friends have asked you to watch a boxing match with them, but you dont like boxing. ReactionReactionThank you for your invitation. But I am not quite interested in it. I hope maybe next time we can do something else together.TipTipAppreciate others good will. It is important to tell the t
17、ruth. Dont lie.How to make requests and refusals.Listening Before listening Before listening1. Read “Did you know?” 1. Read “Did you know?” What is EQ? What is EQ? 2. Say no politely by showing 2. Say no politely by showing higher emotional intelligence. higher emotional intelligence.While listening
18、Activity7: Listen to three conversations and match to the Activity7: Listen to three conversations and match to the pictures . pictures . Conversation 1Conversation 1Picture aPicture a Conversation 2Conversation 2Picture bPicture b Conversation 3Conversation 3Picture cPicture c RequestRequestRefusal
19、Refusal1 1Tina has to leave her flat 1_. She wants to stay at Kerrys place. Kerry thinks that 2 _ is too long.Tina is welcome to stay for 3 _.2 2Mike invites Ryan to 4_ on 5_Ryan cannot come, because he has to 6_ to New York at the weekend.3 3Jane would like to see Becks 7_ for some ideas. Becky ref
20、uses because she thinks it is better for Jane to 8 _. projectprojectone monthone montha few daysa few dayscome to come to the partythe partySaturdaySaturdayprepare prepare for the for the triptripnext weeknext weekdo her project by herselfdo her project by herselfPost listening Role-playStudent A :Y
21、oull go on a trip with your family for two weeks and you would like to ask Student B to take care of your pet cat. Explain to him/her. Student B :Student A would like you to do him/her a favour. You have to refuse politely. Explain to him/her.Suggested answers A: Good morning,Tom! Have you A: Good m
22、orning,Tom! Have you got a minute? got a minute? B: Hi! Kate, whats up? B: Hi! Kate, whats up? A: Huh, I will go on a trip A: Huh, I will go on a trip with my family for two weeks, with my family for two weeks, but I cant bring my pet cat but I cant bring my pet cat together with us. Im together wit
23、h us. Im wondering if you could take wondering if you could take care of it while we are away? care of it while we are away? B: Yeah. Oh, you mean that I B: Yeah. Oh, you mean that I will be its owner? Im sorry, will be its owner? Im sorry, but I have never looked after but I have never looked after
24、 any pets.any pets.A: Dont worry! I promise my A: Dont worry! I promise my cat is well-behaved and cat is well-behaved and wont make any trouble. wont make any trouble. B: En, let me see! Maybe I B: En, let me see! Maybe I have to ask my parents who have to ask my parents who wont allow me to keep p
25、et. wont allow me to keep pet. Suggested answers A: OK. I promise I will treat A: OK. I promise I will treat you to dinner after I come you to dinner after I come back. Just help me. I beg you. back. Just help me. I beg you. B: well, I really want to help B: well, I really want to help you. I know a
26、nother classmate you. I know another classmate who likes cats and maybe he who likes cats and maybe he would like to help. I will would like to help. I will contact him immediately.contact him immediately.A: Really? Thats really A: Really? Thats really good. Thank you so much.good. Thank you so much.B: You are welcome. I wish you B: You are welcome. I wish you have a nice trip with your have a nice trip with your family.family.Treat people as you hope they will treat you.Treat people as they treat you.apologizeapologizeforgiveforgiveappreciationappreciationsay no politelysay no politely
