1、B3U1 Knowing me,knowing youUnderstanding ideas Leaning aims:1.To understand the main content of these two letters.2.To master how to offer suggestions to others.3.To learn the right ways to make friends.Leading-in A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere.Before him,I may think aloud.Seneca 所谓
2、所谓朋友朋友就是我应当就是我应当坦诚坦诚相待的人。在他的面前我将相待的人。在他的面前我将畅畅所欲言所欲言。塞涅卡塞涅卡 How is your feeling if your friend spreads what you said?Fast reading Read these two letters quickly and choose the best summary of the letters.A.Ben said something bad about his best friend,and Agony Aunt told him to apologise to his frien
3、d.B.Ben was angry that his team was let down by some members,and Agony Aunt told him to take it easy.C.Ben didnt play well in the match,and Agony Aunt advised him to apologise to his teammate.D.Ben was in an awkward situation,and Agony Aunt gave him suggestions as to how to deal with his problems.Ca
4、reful reading Complete the sentences with expressions from the passage.Bens problems I was disappointed with my teammate because I felt the team were _ by him.I told my best friend that my teammate was to blame,just_.My best friend went and _everyone else _.I dont know what to do.let downleting off
5、steam toldwhat Id saidsuggestions Ben was angry at his teammate s performance on the basketball court and told his dissatisfication to his best friend,but his best friend told others what hed said,which made him in an awkward situation.Careful reading Read the second letter and divide it into three
6、parts.Agony Aunts suggestions To describe Bens problemTo offer suggestions to BenConclusion Part 1:P _Part 2:P _Part 3:P _13478To offer suggestions to Ben?3 partsListen to the video of P47 of the second letter and fill in the blanks with only one word.First,Agony Aunt asks Ben to _to his teammate an
7、d tell him directly and _ that he was talking without thinking.Then his strategy is _and tell his friend about the reason for his anger._ in this way,the friendship will soon be repaired.And thirdly,and perhaps most _,Ben should think about his own _.Filled with anger,we tend to say _ comes to your
8、mind.If you think about others _ as well as yours,youll soon find every thing works out.apologisehonestlycommunicationwhateverApproachedbehaviorimportantlyfeelingsListen to the video of P47 of the second letter and fill in the blanks with only one word.First,Agony Aunt asks Ben to _to his teammate a
9、nd tell him directly and _ that he was talking without thinking.Then his strategy is _and tell his friend about the reason for his anger._ in this way,the friendship will soon be repaired.And thirdly,and perhaps most _,Ben should think about his own _.Filled with anger,we tend to say _ comes to your
10、 mind.If you think about others _ as well as yours,youll soon find every thing works out.apologisehonestlycommunicationwhateverApproachedbehaviorimportantlyfeelingswords:phrases:linking words:sentences:directly honestlyapologise to sb.first andthat引导的宾语从句引导的宾语从句Analyze the passage above from four as
11、pects-words,phrases,linking words and sentences.words:sentences:directly honestly behavior approach repaircommunication strategyphrases:apologise to.the reason for.tend to as well aswork out be filled withcome to ones mindlinking words:first then thirdly as well as but and most importantlyif 条件句条件句
12、祈使句祈使句 whatever that引导的引导的宾语从句宾语从句 过去分词作状语过去分词作状语approached in this way,.filled with anger,.Now Bens best friend has known that he made Ben in an awkward situation but he doesnt know what to do next.Please choose the useful ones below and write three tips for him with three sentences.Writing exercis
13、e YouNow Bens best friend has known that he made Ben in an awakward situation but he doesnt know what to do next.Please choose the useful ones below and write three tips for him with three sentences.Writing exercise First,filled with sincere,you need to apologise to Ben.Then,a clear communication wi
14、th Ben could make sure that your friendship will be repaired.Most importantly,before saying whatever comes to your mind,always remember(that)think about your own behavior.Share&Summary What are the right ways to make friends?1.Its not a good idea to critisize someone in front of others.This can caus
15、e embarrassment.2.Its important to tell truth.3.Dont always complain about people.Try to look on the bright side.4.Try to forgive someone when they apologise.Its not easy for anyone to say sorry.5.Dont judge someone too quickly.It takes time to understand a person.Homework 假设你是李华，在校园英语论坛上看到一些同学的帖子，他们在就假设你是李华，在校园英语论坛上看到一些同学的帖子，他们在就如何学号英语寻求帮助。请你以如何学号英语寻求帮助。请你以Bookworm的网名给他们回帖，结的网名给他们回帖，结合自己的经验提出一些建议。合自己的经验提出一些建议。1.词数词数100 左右左右2.可适当增加细节，意识行文连贯。可适当增加细节，意识行文连贯。
