1、Absolute agony!Our Agony Aunt answers your questions.胶州市第二中学 李艳荣agonyagony auntlet downsteamlet off steamsinkloose lips sink shipsfaultRead the new words and expressionsresolvestrategysignalbreathtake a breathpull ones weightconcernThe boy is kicking things over to _.let off steamAn _always offers t
2、eenagers help as an adviser.agony auntThey have _ and they always fight.conflictsThe officials are helping them _ conflicts.resolveAll the teammates are _in the match.pulling their weightLoose lips sink ships.What _ him _?is lettingdownI can find the most useful _ in the book.strategybad performance
3、 in a subjectpressure to look goodconflict with classmatesdifficulties fitting in with othersWhich is the most difficult one?Who will you turn to for help?Absolute agonyOur Agony Aunt answers your questions.Dear Agony Aunt,.BenDear Ben,.Agony Auntextreme physical or mental pain or sufferingSkim:What
4、 are they talking about in the letter?BenAgony Auntask for helpoffer adviceP4:Choose the best summary of the letters.1 Ben said something bad about his best friend,and Agoy Aunt told him to apologise to his friend.2 Ben was angry that his team was let down by some members,and Agony Aunt told him to
5、take it easy.3 Ben didnt play well in the match,and Agony Aunt advised him to apologise to his teammate.4 Ben was in an awkward situation,and Agony Aunt gave him suggestions as to how to deal with his problems.I was disappointed with my teammate because I felt _by him.I told my best friend that my t
6、eammate was to blame,just _.My best friend _.I dont know what to do.the team was let downwent and told everyone else what Id said.to let off steamWhat is Bens awkward situation like?Ben feels _to see his teammate.Ben feels _ at the thought of his best friend.Ben feels _of himself.apologise to your t
7、eammatecommunicating with each other clearlyrepeating what you saidAgony Aunts suggestions:say too muchresolving conflictsmaking the situation worsethink first,speak later.You should _.You need to work together,and that means _ and _.Tell your best friend youre angry with him for_and _,but that you
8、want to move on.Dont _when youre angry.Always remember:_.1 What should Ben say to his teammate?Im sorry for.Losing our last match.We need to work.and communicate with.I was talking without thinking.2 What should Ben say to his best friend?I was really angry.for repeating.and making.But I want our fr
9、iendship to.3 What should Ben say to his coach about a teammate who isnt pulling his weight in a professional way?Sir,we lost.,which made me.Everybody played well except.I want to resolve this before it.so I want you to.Id really like to find a solution that strengthens.Choose one to act it out.1 Wh
10、at should Ben say to his teammate?2 What should Ben say to his best friend?3 What should Ben say to his coach about a disqualified(不合格的)teammate?para.1-3 read again and fill in the blanks.Agony Aunt firstly mentions an _,then expresses her understanding of Bens being hurt by _,and lastly points out
11、Bens _before offering her suggestions.old American saying his best friendfaultCommunicating skills:Generally speaking,people avoid giving advice too directly.Its good to communicate emotionally before giving advice.How to write letters?Dear Agony Aunt,.BenDear Ben,.Agony Auntperson:first person tens
12、e:past tense /present tenselanguage:briefly describe your problems;ask for help in a polite way.person:second person tense:past tense /present tenselanguage:dont miss any point;give advice in a polite way.Match the Chinese idiom with each sentence.1 I was letting off steam because I was so angry.2 I
13、 tend to say whatever comes to my mind.3 I was talking without thinking.4 Loose lips sink ships.牢骚满腹心直口快脱口而出祸从口出Match the Chinese idiom with each sentence.1 I was letting off steam because I was so angry.2 I tend to say whatever comes to my mind.3 I was talking without thinking.4 Loose lips sink shi
14、ps.牢骚满腹心直口快脱口而出祸从口出Match the Chinese idiom with each sentence.5 Think about other peoples feelings as well as your own.6We should always think before we speak.7 I feel all my teammates are pulling their weight.8Friendship should be one of the greatest thing in the world,but sometimes it can be diffi
15、cult.换位思考三思而行各司其职弥足珍贵且行且珍惜Match the Chinese idiom with each sentence.5 Think about other peoples feelings as well as your own.6We should always think before we speak.7 I feel all my teammates are pulling their weight.8Friendship should be one of the greatest thing in the world,but sometimes it can be difficult.换位思考三思而行各司其职弥足珍贵且行且珍惜 Think:What do you think is the best way to resolve conflicts with your classmates/teammates/.?let off your steamresolve your problemsreduce your pressure relax your mind know yourself and others betterin a professional way.