1、L/O/G/O上海交通大学出版社上海交通大学出版社 应用型大学英语系列教材应用型大学英语系列教材Book Application-oriented college English Course*2上海交通大上海交通大学学出版社出版社 Language in Use Enhancement of Language Abilities Unit ThreeTable of Contents Language Skills DevelopmentBackNext*3上海交通大上海交通大学学出版社出版社 StarterText:The love letter Working with words an
2、d phrasesDiscussionPractice:interpretingPractice:translationPractice:writingSurfing the InternetHighlightsTable of ContentsPart 1 Language Skills DevelopmentBackNext*4上海交通大上海交通大学学出版社出版社 HighlightsS:A song:right here waitingL:True loveR:The love letterW:Paragraph unityInternet work:Interesting aspect
3、s of English wedding customs Part 1 Language Skills DevelopmentBackNext*5*6Todays TopicTodays Topic*Interstellar*8Whatever love is,now we are going to be overwhelmed by love.1.Do you know any love films?2.Do you know any love songs?3.Do you know any techniques to win someones heart?Next*9Tell as man
4、y love films as possible.Gone With the Wind(1939)Waterloo Bridge(1940)Casablanca(1942)BackNext*10Roman Holiday(1953)Ghost(1990)Pretty Woman(1990)BackNext*11Sleepless in Seattle(1993)Titanic(1997)Notting Hill(1990)BackNext*1250 First Dates(2004)Wall-E(2008)BackNextCity of Angels(1998)*13Love stories
5、with happy endings.Love stories with tragic endings.Mr.Darcy&Elizabeth Love&admirationprejudicecommunicationJoe Fox&Kathleen Kelly antipathy/dislikeE-mailLove&admirationRomeo&Julietfamily feuddied for loveLiang Shanbo&Zhu Yingtaifeudal family valuesdied for love*14Tell as many love songs as possible
6、.HeroMariah CareyRight Here WaitingRichard MarxOnly YouThe Platterswhen you say nothing at allAlison KraussWay Back Into LoveHaley Bennett&Hugh GrantTake me to your heartMichael Learns to RockBackNext*15As Long As You Love MeBackstreet BoysMy LoveWestlifeNothings Gonna Change My Love For YouThe Rose
7、WestlifeLove StoryTaylor SwiftBabyJustin BieberBackNext*16How to win a girls heart?Dont come on too strong early.Be brave.Do not ever treat her as she were merely an item.Prove that you really like her.Care for her.Make sure to be good friends with her friends.Make her feel like the most beautiful t
8、hing in the world.Make sure she feels safe with you.Feel good and bad for her.NextBack*1710.If you can make a girl laugh,youll get further with her.Let her wear your jacket if shes cold.Dont play computer or cell phone games.Be sincere.Love who she is.Always let her know you love her.NextBack*18How
9、to win a boys heart?Dont be afraid!Be spontaneous!Personality is important,show him your support and try to let him talk about his life instead of blabbering about yours.Putting effort into your looks once in a while can catch his eyes.Get into deeper conversations-depending on how close you both ar
10、e.Dont be too serious.Take note of his interests.Spoil his stomach,always have some snacks ready while you hang around him.NextBack*19上海交通大上海交通大学学出版社出版社 BackNext1.StarterA.Read the lyrics of a song.Listen to the music video.http:/ Right Here Waiting by Richard MarxOceans apart day after dayAnd I slo
11、wly go insaneI hear your voice on the lineBut it doesnt stop the painIf I see you next to neverHow can we say foreverWherever you goWhatever you doI will be right here waiting for youWhatever it takesOr how my heart breaksI will be right here waiting for you*201.Starter上海交通大学出版社上海交通大学出版社 BackNextB.L
12、isten to the passage and choose the best answer for each question you hear.1.Why did the couple move out from the luxury villa?()A.Because their villa was lent to their friends.B.Because they were bankrupted.C.Because they bought a new villa.D.Because they didnt like their villa.2.Why was the wife t
13、otally depressed?()A.Because she thought her husband didnt care her at all.B.Because she was tired.C.Because she didnt want to take a bath.D.Because she didnt like the bathroom.3.Why did the husband always take bath first?()A.Because he was tired.B.Because he liked taking a cold bath.C.Because he wa
14、nted to go to bed early.D.Because he wanted to make the bathroom warmer.ADBB.Listen to the passage and choose the best answer for each question you hear.*1 Love In a cold winter,a couple had to move out from the luxury villa because of bankruptcy.The husband worked day and night to support the famil
15、y but with no care of his wife.So she thought,“he doesnt love me anymore,he just cares his business.not me.”One day,she wanted to take a bath,but he stopped her at the door,“Let me take it first,OK?”“Why not let me shower first,”she asked.“I was tired,sweetie,you take it later,OK?”She was totally de
16、pressed.To be continuedTapescript*On a morose day,she found nothing to do and turned on his computer.A few words blurred her eyes.it was his diary:Today,I was quite sad.She asked me why I was always taking the bath first,and I said to her,I was exhausted.She was unhappy.In her mind,I treated her not
17、 as well as usual,but how can I do?I wasnt as rich as before!We moved to the small apartment,and there was only a shower in such a freezing winter.But I found that if one person took the shower first,the room could get a little warmer,so every time I rushed to the bathroom first.I was thinking that,
18、when she took the shower,the room would get warmer,at least 1.Now I cant give her comfortable life,bring her to the luxury restaurants,buy expensive dresses for her,but at least,I can give her 1 love.*It is the fountain of the mental and physical health of individuals.It is the best way to teach peo
19、ple how to love others.It is the fundamental approach to manitain the stability of society.It is the supply to transmission of the positive energy in society.*Focus In Part 1criticaloxygennegotiabledepressiondepriveunrealisticconstantlydistractionconsequenceapproachpsychologicalwillvirtuallyguarante
20、emeansintensifycorerepresentdisputeinadequacyfundamentallyadequateat risksweep one off ones feetconsist ofward off on average compromise onfocus onbe aware of*上海交通大学出版社上海交通大学出版社 Text Lead-inText OrganizationIntroduction(Paras._)Introduction to the importance of love.Body (Paras.The means help you to
21、 love and be loved.Conclusion(Para._)Act in an effective way to find and keep the love you need.Paras._ Love does not just happen.Para._Three action strategies to love and be loved.Paras._Identify the differences between two people and negotiate.1-23-9107-963-5 Text Organization*上海交通大学出版社上海交通大学出版社 B
22、ackNextQuestions for Para 1-2：1.What does love mean to you according to the author?Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen.2.Why is love probably the best antidepressant?Because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved.Part I:Introduction to the importance of love
23、.*1 Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen.Its not negotiable.The more connected you are,the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally.The less connected you are,the more you are at risk.爱的力量爱的力量 爱对你的情绪和身体来说，爱对你的情绪和身体来说，跟氧气一样重要。这点无需置疑。跟氧气一样重要。这点无需置疑。你和别人关系越紧密，就会越健你和别人关系越紧密，
24、就会越健康，不仅在身体上，康，不仅在身体上，在情绪方面在情绪方面也是如此。而如果与别人越疏远，也是如此。而如果与别人越疏远，对健康的威胁就会越大。对健康的威胁就会越大。Meaning:Just as oxygens importance to peoples life,love is as important as oxygen for your mood and body.TranslationNext*2 It is also true that the less love you have,the more depression you are likely to experience
25、in your life.Love is probably the best antidepressant because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved.Most depressed people dont love themselves and they do not feel loved by others.They are also very self-focused,making them less a t t r a c t i v e t o o t h e r s a n d dep
26、riving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love.Meaning:Love is the most effective medicine for depression,because one of the most common reasons of being unhappy is the feeling that no one loves him or her.Translation 同样，你拥有的爱越少，同样，你拥有的爱越少，就越可能经历抑郁。爱可能就越可能经历抑郁。爱可能是最好的抗抑郁药，因为陷是最好的抗抑郁药，因为陷入抑
27、郁最重要的原因之一就入抑郁最重要的原因之一就是感觉没人爱。大多数抑郁是感觉没人爱。大多数抑郁的人不爱自己，也感觉不到的人不爱自己，也感觉不到有人爱他们。他们还总是把有人爱他们。他们还总是把注意力集中在自己身上，这注意力集中在自己身上，这大大降低了他们的吸引力，大大降低了他们的吸引力，也使得那些让他们学会去爱也使得那些让他们学会去爱的机会白白溜走。的机会白白溜走。BackNext*critical:a.1)very important because what happens depends on it 重要的，紧要的，关键性的重要的，紧要的，关键性的 These talks are criti
28、cal to the future of the peace process.这些谈判对和平进程的前景至关这些谈判对和平进程的前景至关重要。重要。2)saying when sth.is wrong 批评的，爱挑剔的批评的，爱挑剔的 Her father is a very critical man.她的父亲是个非常挑剔的人。她的父亲是个非常挑剔的人。Examples:Exercises:critical,criticize,critic,criticismShe used to be a literary _.We are at a _ time in our history.That mo
29、vie was _ for being vulgar.The scheme is open to _.criticalcriticismcriticizedcritic*negotiable:a.an offer,price,contract,etc.that can be discussed and changed before being agreed on 可谈判的，可协商的可谈判的，可协商的Examples:Terms and conditions are negotiable.条款是可以协商的。条款是可以协商的。negotiate vi./vt.negotiation n.negot
30、iator n.*the morethe more/the less:if a particular activity increases,another change happens as a result越越越越 The more I thought about it,the less I liked the idea.我越想越觉得我越想越觉得这个主意不好。这个主意不好。Examples:Make sentences with the morethe more/the less.*at risk:in a situation where you may be harmed 处境危险，受到威
31、处境危险，受到威胁胁Examples:We must stop these rumors;the firms reputation is at risk.我们必须制止这些谣言，公司的名誉受到了威胁。我们必须制止这些谣言，公司的名誉受到了威胁。Their children are also at high risk of developing the disease.他们的孩子患此病的风险也很高。他们的孩子患此病的风险也很高。*The Symptoms of Depression:The Symptoms of Depression:physical symptoms such as pains
32、,stomach upset and crampsa decrease in energysuicidal thoughts or tendenciesno pleasure taken in activities that used to bring pleasurerestlessness and irritabilitya sense of worthlessness or guilt*antidepressant:n.U An antidepressant is a drug which is used to treat people who are suffering from de
33、pression.抗抑郁药抗抑郁药Examples:Running long and hard is an ideal antidepressant.长距离并且艰苦的跑步是理想的抗抑郁病的药。长距离并且艰苦的跑步是理想的抗抑郁病的药。Prefix:anti-anti-corruption anti-social anti-virus anti-aging antibody anticlockwise*self-:prefix relating to yourself or itself,used with many nouns and adjectives 表示表示“自我的自我的”自控自控se
34、lf-centeredself-esteemself-aware self-focused self-control 以自我为中心的以自我为中心的自尊自尊自知的，自明的自知的，自明的自我关注自我关注self-care自我保护自我保护*deprive:vt.to prevent someone from having something,especially something that they need or should have 剥夺剥夺Examples:A lot of these children have been deprived of a normal home life.这些
35、孩子中有许多被剥夺了正常的家庭生活。这些孩子中有许多被剥夺了正常的家庭生活。deprive sb.of opportunities,basic rights,luxury(不常不常有的乐趣有的乐趣).deprive sb.of?*上海交通大学出版社上海交通大学出版社 BackNext2.The Power of Love4.What is the pop-culture ideal of love?The pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment,which is one
36、 reason so many of us are set up to be depressed.3.How do people get and keep love?You have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.Part II:The means help you to love and be loved.Questions for Para 3-5：*3 There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens.As a result,
37、the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them.But love doesnt work that way.To get love and keep love,you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.Translation 3 在我们的文化里，人们盲在我们的文化里，人们盲目相信爱情是可遇不可求的。目相信爱情是可遇不可求的。正因如此，那些郁闷的人总正因如此，那些郁闷的人总是守株待兔，被动地等着别
38、是守株待兔，被动地等着别人来爱他们。不过，爱情并人来爱他们。不过，爱情并不是这样。得到爱、维持爱，不是这样。得到爱、维持爱，必须走出去、主动地学习一必须走出去、主动地学习一系列专门的方法。系列专门的方法。Meaning:People in our culture always blindly believe that love comes out just by accident,but not resorting or hunting.神话，错神话，错误的观点误的观点NextBack*4 Most of us get our ideas of love from popular cultur
39、e.We come to believe that love is something that sweeps us off our feet.But the pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment,which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed.Its part of our vulnerability,like eating junk food,constantly stimulated by
40、 images of instant gratification.We think it is love when its simply distraction and infatuation.Meaning:We get used to b e l i e v e t h a t l o v e i s something that comes into being all of a sudden,and makes people surprised and unable to hold on.Translation4 我们中的大多数人通过流我们中的大多数人通过流行文化来了解爱情。我们开行文
41、化来了解爱情。我们开始相信爱情是突然到来的、始相信爱情是突然到来的、让我们猝不及防、无力招架让我们猝不及防、无力招架的东西。不过流行文化中的的东西。不过流行文化中的理想爱情包括了很多为了娱理想爱情包括了很多为了娱乐效果而特地制造出来的、乐效果而特地制造出来的、不现实的情景，这也是我们不现实的情景，这也是我们陷入抑郁的一个陷阱。我们陷入抑郁的一个陷阱。我们有脆弱的一面，比如大嚼垃有脆弱的一面，比如大嚼垃圾食品、总是能被那些立即圾食品、总是能被那些立即让人满足的画面所打动。我让人满足的画面所打动。我们认为那就是爱情了，而实们认为那就是爱情了，而实际上那只不过是分心或是迷际上那只不过是分心或是迷恋。
42、恋。脆弱性；脆弱性；弱点弱点满足；满满足；满意，喜悦意，喜悦（尤指一时的尤指一时的）迷恋，痴心迷恋，痴心 TBackNext*5 而这样的结果之一是而这样的结果之一是，当遇到真爱，我们会，当遇到真爱，我们会沮丧和失望，因为有太沮丧和失望，因为有太多的事情和流行文化告多的事情和流行文化告诉我们的理想不同。有诉我们的理想不同。有些人要求高、控制欲强些人要求高、控制欲强，想让别人做出那些我，想让别人做出那些我们以为理想的恋爱中应们以为理想的恋爱中应该发生的那些事情，但该发生的那些事情，但他们并没有意识到，这他们并没有意识到，这种种“理想理想”是一种错误是一种错误。5 One consequence
43、is that when we hit real love,we b e c o m e u p s e t a n d disappointed because there are many things that do not fit the cultural ideal.Some of us g e t d e m a n d i n g a n d controlling,wanting someone else to do what we think our ideal of romance should be,without realizing our ideal is mispl
44、aced.Translation遇见遇见苛求的苛求的NextBack*come to believe:开始相信开始相信Examples:More and more people in the west have come to believe in acupuncture therapy.越来越多的西方人开始相信针灸治疗。越来越多的西方人开始相信针灸治疗。come to passcome to powercome to lifecome to termscome to light实现，发生实现，发生上台，掌权上台，掌权苏醒过来苏醒过来达成协议达成协议显露，为大家所周知显露，为大家所周知*swe
45、ep one off ones feet:给某人深刻印象；征服，迷倒某人给某人深刻印象；征服，迷倒某人Examples:His courtship swept her off her feet.他的求爱立刻赢得了她的心。他的求爱立刻赢得了她的心。*consist of:to be formed from two or more things or people 由由组成组成Examples:The buffet consisted of several different Indian dishes.自助餐由几种不同的印度菜组成。自助餐由几种不同的印度菜组成。Translation:Trans
46、lation:观众主要是青少年。观众主要是青少年。The audience consisted mainly of teenagers.*distraction：n.C,U something that stops you paying attention to what you are doing使人分心的事物使人分心的事物Translation:Translation:我在图书馆学习，家里分心的事太多。我在图书馆学习，家里分心的事太多。I study in the library as there are too many distractions at home.distract vt.
47、distractive adj.distractor n.错误选择错误选择*Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture.(Para.4)To be specific,what miedia(媒介媒介)does the popular culture adopt to change our ideas of love?the best sellers,TV series(especially from Korea)movies,songs,reality shows.show of affection from the Momet
48、of Wechatthe romance or show of affection or weddings by the celebritiesproposals on campus*Consequences?daydreamingloss of the satisfaction and enthusiathem in lifechanging the values and getting more and more critical to your loverfailure to hit the true love*上海交通大学出版社上海交通大学出版社 BackNextQuestion fo
49、r Para 6：of Love5.What are the action strategies to ward off depression?Recognize the difference between limerance and love.Know that love is a learned skill,not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly.Learn good communication skills.Part II:The means help you to love and be loved
50、.*6 It is not only possible but necessary to change ones approach to love to ward off depression.Follow these action strategies to get more of what you want out of lifeto love and be loved.Recognize the difference between limerance and love.Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation.It
