1、“” ABSOLUTE AGONY! Our agony aunt answers your questions. Lead in Whats the biggest problem you have been faced with during the first month of your new semester? the problem of how to get along with new classmates Who will you turn to for help when you face this problem? Friends Parents Teachers Onl
2、ine forums no one you prefer to keep things to yourself Other:_Agony Aunt Lead in Before reading BenAgony Aunt Be in a total messCan help him out Turn to for help Learning objectives After this lesson, you will be able to: 1. Identify the problem that Ben is faced with and the situation that he is i
3、n. 2. Analyze how the problem was brought about from multi-perspectives. 3. Figure out how the problem can be solved, why actions should be taken like that, and how to specifically do that. 4. Present the problems that you are faced with in the school. 5. Analyze and solve others problems, using wha
4、t we learn today. While-reading Activity 1 read the letter from Ben to Agony Aunt, and identify the problem Ben is faced with and the situation he is in. Problem Believing one of his teammates let down the whole team, Ben expressed his dissatisfaction with the member to his best friend, but then his
5、 friend spread his words out. Situation Awkward, embarrassed, and ashamed.social dilemma (困境) Presentation of the problem “ ” While-reading Who do you think should be blamed concerning this problem? While-reading Activity 2 continue to read the letter from Agony Aunt to Ben, and analyze how the prob
6、lem was brought about from multi- perspectives (视角). Teammate Ben Best friend Didnt pull his weight in the match. Let off steam in a “speaking before thinking” way. Has loose lips which can sink ships The problem was brought about Analysis of the problem “ ” While-reading Do you notice what techniqu
7、e (手段) the Agony Aunt used when she showed Ben her analysis of the problem? While-reading Treated this way, youre sure to feel hurt - we should always be able to trust those closest to us, and it hurts even more when we find we cant. You admit that you were “letting off steam”. It is understandable
8、in that situation, but we should always think before we speak. The show of empathy (同理心，共情) While-reading Activity 3 continue to read the letter from Agony Aunt to Ben, and figure out how the problem can be solved, why actions should be taken like that, and how to specifically do that. TeammateFrien
9、dYourself How the problem can be solved Why actions should be taken like that How to specifically do that TeammateFriendYourself How the problem can be solved Why actions should be taken like that How to specifically do that Apologise to him, communicate with him clearly, and resolve conflicts. To w
10、ork together to win more basketball games. Tell him directly and honestly that you were talking without thinking. Talk to him, have clear communication. To repair the friendship, which is one of the greatest things in the world. Tell him youre angry with him for repeating what you said (directly) an
11、d making the situation worse, but that you want to move on (forgivingly). Think about your own behaviour. To trace the problem to your own side.* Think about whether you can clam down when you are angry, and whether you can solve the problem in a professional way. Solutions to the problem While-read
12、ing How the problem can be solved? TeammateFriendYourself How the problem can be solved Apologise to him, communicate with him clearly, and resolve conflicts. Talk to him, have clear communication. Think about your own behaviour. Interpersonal: clear communication Intrapersonal: deep reflection Solu
13、tions to the problem While-reading TeammateFriendYourself Why actions should be taken like that To work together to win more basketball games. To repair the friendship, which is one of the greatest things in the world. To trace the problem to your own side.* Why actions should be taken like that? Mu
14、tual benefit Personal growth Solutions to the problem While-reading How to specifically do that? TeammateFriendYourself How to specifically do that Tell him directly and honestly that you were talking without thinking. Tell him youre angry with him for repeating what you said (directly) and making t
15、he situation worse, but that you want to move on (forgivingly). Think about whether you can clam down when you are angry, and whether you can solve the problem in a professional way. Content of deep reflection: mindset+way Atitude of clear communication: sincerity+generosity Solutions to the problem
16、 “ ” Post-reading Activity 4 work in groups, present your goup members the problems you are faced with in turn, and help others analyze and solve their problems. Presentation of the problem Analysis of the problem Solutions to the problem problem situation multi- perspectives how(inter?intra?); why(mutual?personal?); how specifically (attitude?content?) “” Assignment Prepare for a presentation concerning Bens problem, including the follwing aspects: presentation of the problem, analysis of the problem, and solutions to the problem. Thank you
