1、Interpersonal relationships To learn words that describe behaviour towards others.To learn to deal with interpersonal relationship problems.To be able to ask for a favour and refuse politely.When we mention of happy and healthy relationships,what words will appear in your mind?relationshipsgenerousu
2、nderstandcriticisecomplainhonestRead the tips and underline the words that describe behaviour towards others.forgive;apologisecriticiseliejudgecomplainDescribe the situations with the words you underlined just now.1.Im really sorry.I didnt mean it._2.Youre so selfish!_3.I know youre sorry.Its Ok.Don
3、t worry about it._4.I can tell he is not easy to get along with._5.I dont want to wait for him all the time._6.My pet parrot flew away with my homework._apologisecriticiseforgivejudgecomplainlieDiscuss what you would react in the following situations and explain your reasons.1.You forgot your best f
4、riends birthday,and you feel bad about it.2.Your neighbour always makes a lot of noise late at night.You cannot stand it.3.Your classmate borrowed a book from you and lost it.4.Your friends have asked you to watch a boxing match with them,but you dont like boxing.Ill make up for forgetting my friend
5、s birthday by crafting an apology to him.This shows I put some thought and effort into correcting my memory lapse.I think this will be meaningful.You forgot your best friends birthday,and you feel bad about it.1For him,the birthday is a special day.We all together should have planned a celebration o
6、r run around singing“Happy Birthday”to him.Hopefully,he is sure to feel a little different that day,and somewhat distinguished.Ill react in the following ways:u Talk to my neighbour about it.u Rearrange the furniture in my room.u Install acoustic tiles.u Soundproof my windows.u Insulate the floor.安装
7、隔音砖安装隔音砖2Your neighbour always makes a lot of noise late at night.You cannot stand it.I have a lot of noises bothering me at night and keeping me up.Losing sleep because of noise can be extremely frustrating,and a lack of sleep can even affect my health.Besides,I always feel tired and cant concentra
8、te on my work.Ill react in the following ways:uTell my classmate I like the book best and Im unhappy to lose it.uLook again in places it would normally be.uPut up a lost notice at school.uCall places we visited recently.3Losing a book can be frustrating,embarrassing,especially it is my favourite one
9、.Your classmate borrowed a book from you and lost it.Ill react in the following ways:uBe honest,but also kind.uOffer an alternative time to get together.uTurn my regrets into a sandwich.uCall after the event to ask how it went.Your friends have asked you to watch a boxing match with them,but you don
10、t like boxing.3 4Ill decline his invitation without hurting his feelings or creating hostility between the two of us by responding politely and quickly.Did you know what EQ and IQ are?Which one do you think plays a more important part in our lives?Watch the video and get the main idea.How to say no
11、politely?Emotional quotient(EQ),or emotional intelligence quotient,is a measurement of the ability to recognise ones own and other peoples emotions.It is believed that EQ plays an even more important role than IQ(intelligence quotient)in peoples lives.Being able to say no politely is one of the feat
12、ures of emotional intelligence.Listen to three conversations and match them to the pictures.Answers:a2;b3；c1Kerry thinks that 2_ is too long.Tina is welcome to stay for 3_.Listen again and complete the table.RequestRequestRefusal1 1Tina has to leave her flat 1_.She wants to stay at Kerrys place.Requ
13、est next weekone montha few daysRyan cannot come,because he has to 6_ to New York at the weekend.RequRequestest Mike invites Ryan to 4_ on 5_.Request Refusal come to the partySaturdayprepare for the trip2 2Becky refuses because she thinks it is better for Jane to 8_.RequestRequestJane would like to
14、see Beckys 7_ for some ideas.Request Refusal projectdo her project by herself3 3Now talk about how the speakers make requests and refusals.Listen again if necessary.requestsasking someone to do something for youasking if you can do somethingrefusalsdirect refusalsindirect refusalsvague refusals模糊的模糊
15、的 Could /Can you?Would you mind?May I ask you to?Oh you mean,Um not exactly Im afraid OhId love to,but Im Oh noThats too bad.I was just wondering if you could Im sorry that it just doesnt feel right.But maybe we canUseful expressionsIf you have to say no to a request,your refusal will sound more pol
16、ite if you begin with a statement of regret,such as Im sorry,Id really like to,but Then explain why your answer is no,eg Im really busy right now.If possible,suggest an alternative How about next week?Learning to learnWork in pairs.Act out the conversation about asking for a favour and refusing poli
17、tely.Student A You will go on a trip with your family for two weeks and you would like to ask Student B to take care of your pet cat.Explain to him/her:Youd like to send your pet cat to his/her flat to stay for 2 weeks.Your cat is well-behaved and wont make any trouble.You will treat him/her to dinn
18、er when you come back.Useful expressions Have you got a minute?Hello!Just the person I wanted to see.Well,the thing is I was just wondering if you could I promise Oh,come on,pleaseStudent BStudent A would like you to do him/her a favour.You have to refuse politely.Explain to him/her:You dont want yo
19、ur room to be messy.Your parents wont allow it.You know another classmate who likes cats and maybe he/she would like to help.Useful expressions Whats up?Oh,you mean?Im afraid Im sorry,but I think it would be better to But maybeWork in pairs.Think of another situation and have a similar conversation.
20、Saying no when you just dont feel like doing something.Saying no because you are not free.Saying no to a situation that makes you uncomfortable.Saying no to something that is wrong or illegal.Techniques to say NO Excuse yourself plainly.Make a counter-offer.Make another suggestion.Have humility.Spea
21、k in an honest way.n.谦逊谦逊=clearly1.Here is the situation:you need to go out at once because you have a date with your friend at the movie theatre.However,your mum asks you to help her do some cleaning.You want to say no to your mum.Make up a conversation between you and your mum.2.Preview the next part:Developing ideas.
