1、contentsPre-readingLanguage pointsFast-readingHomeworkCareful-readingPost-readingPre-readingI He is sitting alone.He looks disappointed.He may be a quiet person.He is eager to eat food.He may be hungry.It seems that he loves eating.He is quarreling with another guy.He looks angry.He may be short-tem
2、pered.He is talking with some people excitedly.He looks delighted.He may be friendly.She is offering cakes to a guy happily.She looks hospitable.She may be a kind girl.She has broken a cup.She looks frightened.She may be a careless girl.和平者和平者改革者改革者助人者助人者成就者成就者浪漫者浪漫者观察者观察者忠诚者忠诚者享乐者享乐者挑战者挑战者1.What do
3、 the three conversations have in common?2.What problems are shown in each situation?1.What do the three conversations have in common?2.What problems are shown in each situation?They are all about impolite behaviours in daily life.In the first situation，_.In the second situation,_.In the third situat
4、ion,_.I would thank the boy for his help without complaining I would listen to the friend patiently without interrupting I would thank the girl sincerely without asking how much it isbad performance in a subjectpressure to look goodconflict with classmates difficulties fitting in with others friends
5、 parents teachers online forums no one you prefer to keep things to yourself other_An agony aunt is a British advice columnist giving advice to people who send in personal problems to the advice column of a newspaper or a magazine.The image presented was originally of an older woman offering comfort
6、ing advice and maternal wisdom.Nowadays,the advisor is not necessarily female.It may turn out to be a male(Agony Uncle)or even a team.In American English,“advice columnist”is used.Dear Agony Aunt,Im in a total mess herehope you can help me out!尊敬的知心阿姨我这儿一团糟希望您能帮帮我！With the help of在的帮助下cant help doin
7、g情不自禁做某事 Im 17,and a member of our school basketball team.Im crazy about basketball,and pretty good at it too,which is probably why I was so mad when we lost our last match.We played well,but I felt the team were let down by one member,our point guard.我今年17岁，是学校篮球队的一员。我酷爱打篮球，而且打得也挺好的，也许正因如此，在我们队输掉了最
8、近的比赛时我相当恼怒。我们打得不错，但我感觉整个团队都被一个队友拖累了，那就是我们的控球后卫。a number of 一些the number of的数量非限制性定语从句，which指代前面的整个主句；该定语从句中含有一个why引导的表语从句，该表语从句中又包含一个when引导的时间状语从句。like crazy/crazilydrove his parents crazy let alone 更不用说let go(of)释放松手let off 放过，宽恕，使爆炸let out 发出，放出，泄露，改大衣服let in 让进来，嵌入，改小衣服let alonehimselfThe point g
9、uard is a key player,but it was like he wasnt even on the court!Disappointed by his behaviour,I said all this to my best friend.I was just letting off steam really,because I was so angry,but then my friend went and told everyone else what Id said.控球后卫是队里的关键球员，但他就像根本不在场上一样！我对他的行为感到失望，我把这些全部告诉了我最好的朋友。
10、我其实只是发泄一下怒气，因为我很生气，可我的朋友随后却把我的话告诉了所有人。like 好像，仿佛 even iflet off steam发泄怒火过去分词短语 Disappointed by his behaviour作原因状语，相当于Because I was disappointed by his behaviour。拓展“生气”或“愤怒”的其他表达：hit the roof非常生气，暴怒 go mad生气，光火 fly into a temper勃然大怒 lose ones temper with sb.对某人发脾气 get/be cross with sb.十分生某人的气 go ban
11、anas发怒 do ones nut暴跳如雷，气炸This is so totally awkward.Im really angry with my friendwhat should I say to him?And should I say anything at all to my teammate?这太让人尴尬了。我真的很生我朋友的气我应该对他说些什么呢？另外，我是否应该对我的队友说点什么？awkward adj.尴尬的，使人难堪的Embarrassed and ashamed,I cant concentrate on anything.Please help!我既尴尬又羞愧，做什
12、么事都无法集中精力。请您帮帮我吧！embarrassed adj.尴尬的，害羞的ashamed adj.惭愧，羞愧，尴尬be deeply ashamed of.对深感羞愧concentrate on.集中注意力于concentrate vt.&vi.集中(注意力)，聚精会神形容词短语Embarrassed and ashamed作原因状语，相当于Because I am embarrassed and ashamed。There is an old American saying,“Loose lips sink ships.”This means that if you speak too
13、 much about something,especially to people who you dont know so well,itll cause all kinds of trouble.美国有一句老话：“口风不紧船舰沉(祸从口出)。”意思是说如果你过多地谈论某件事，尤其是跟你不太了解的人谈，会招来各种各样的麻烦。本句是一个较复杂的主从复合句。that引导的宾语从句that.trouble作主句谓语means的宾语；该宾语从句中包含一个if引导的条件状语从句；该条件状语从句中又包含一个who引导的定语从句，修饰先行词people。The situation here is so
14、much worse because the“loose lips”were your best friends.Treated this way,youre sure to feel hurtwe should always be able to trust those closest to us,and it hurts even more when we find we cant.现在的情况更糟糕，因为“口风不紧”的人是你最好的朋友。被这样对待，你一定会觉得受到了伤害我们应该总是能够信任和我们最亲近的人，当我们发现他们不能信赖时，就更伤心了。过去分词短语Treated this way作
15、时间状语。本句中的第一个hurt为形容词，表示“very upset or unhappy because someone has said or done something unkind，dishonest，or unfair”；第二个hurt为不及物动词，表示“to make someone feel very upset，unhappy，sad，etc.”。此外，hurt还可作及物动词，表示“to injure yourself or someone else”。But I have to say that its partly your fault,isnt it?You admit
16、 that you were“letting off steam”.It is understandable in that situation,but we should always think before we speak.不过我不得不说你也有一部分责任，不是吗？你承认了你在“宣泄情绪”。在当时的情况下，这是可以理解的，但我们在说话前应该先想清楚（先思后行）。fault多指性格上的弱点、行为上的过失，强调对过失应负的责任。mistake意为“错误，误会，误解，弄错”，多指因缺乏正确理解造成的行动上、认识上的错误。at fault 有责任，有错find fault(with)找茬儿，挑剔
17、understandable adj.合情理的，可以理解的构词法able是一个形容词后缀，意为“可的，能的；具有性质的”Heres what you need to do.First,apologise to your teammate.If you ever want to win any more basketball games(and Im sure you do!),you need to work together,and that means communicating with each other clearly and resolving conflicts.So have
18、 a chat with your teammate.Tell him directly and honestly that you were talking without thinking.现在你应该这么做。首先，向你的队友道歉。如果你们想赢得更多的篮球比赛（我肯定你们一定想赢!），你们就必须团结合作，这就意味着你们彼此间必须沟通清楚，解决矛盾。所以，找你那位队友聊聊吧。坦诚地告诉他你当时的话没有经过认真考虑。resolve vt.解决(问题、困难)resolution nU，sing.(问题、分歧等的)解决本句使用了倒装结构，副词Here提前，主语是what引导的主语从句what you
19、 need to do。Then,talk to your friend.Friendship should be one of the greatest things in the world,but sometimes it can be difficult.Again,your strategy is clear communication.Tell your friend youre angry with him for repeating what you said and making the situation worse,but that you want to move on
20、.Approached in this way,your friendship will soon be repaired.然后，和你的朋友聊聊吧。友谊应该是世界上最好的事物之一了，但有时也会有些麻烦。同样，你的策略是进行清楚明确的沟通。告诉你的朋友，他传话的行为让情况更糟糕了，你对此很生气，但你想让事情就此过去。通过这种方式处理，你们的友谊很快就会修复。过去分词短语Approached in this way在此作条件状语，相当于If your friendship is approached in this way。Thirdly,and perhaps most importantly,
21、think about your own behaviour.Dont say too much when youre angry!Filled with anger,you tend to say whatever comes to your mind.This gives people the wrong signal.Take a deep breath,calm down,and always remember:think first,speak later.If you feel one of your teammates isnt pulling their weight,then
22、 raise your concerns in a professional way with your team coach.第三，也许是最重要的一点，反思自己的行为。生气的时候别说太多话！满腔怒火的时候，你往往想到什么就说什么。这会给别人错误的信号。深呼吸，冷静下来，并始终牢记：三思而后行。如果你觉得你的队友没有尽责，那你要以更专业的方式向教练提出你的担心。most importantly最为重要的是more importantly更重要的是signal nC信号；暗号 v.signsignal sb to do sth.示意某人做某事raise ones concerns with sb
23、.向某人提出担忧concern nC，U忧虑，担心 be concerned with/in 与有关 be concerned about/for对关心 as far as Im concerned就我而言 过去分词短语Filled with anger作时间状语，相当于When you are filled with anger。whatever引导宾语从句，在从句中作主语。If you think about other peoples feelings as well as your own,youll soon find everything works out.如果你能在考虑自己感受的同时也考虑别人的感受，很快你就会发现一切都解决了（奏效起作用）。
