1、Book3 Unit1Knowing me,knowing youLook at the problems you may face at school.Discuss which you think is the most difficult to overcome and why.A.bad performance in a subjectB.pressure to look goodC.conflict with classmatesD.not get along well with roommatesE.difficulties fitting in with othersF.cann
2、ot concentrate on studyG.your secret gave away by your best friendNow think about who you turn to for help when you face a problem.friendsparentsteachersonline forumsagony auntAn agony aunt is a person who writes a column(专栏)in a newspaper or magazine in which they reply to readers who have written
3、to them for advice on their personal problems.yourselfBenNow read Bens letter and find out what Bens agony is and who he turns to for help.Hello!I am Ben,a senior high student.Recently I am in absolute agony and I dont know what to do.Ben1.What kind of problems does Ben have?A.bad performance in a s
4、ubjectB.pressure to look goodC.conflict with classmatesD.not get along well with roommatesE.difficulties fitting in with othersF.cannot concentrate on studyG.your secret gave away by your best friend2.Who does he turn to for help?3.What are the types of these two letters?Letter 1:Letter for_;Letter
5、2:Letter of _helpadviceNow read Bens letter and find out what Bens agony is and who he turns to for help.An agony auntBens feelingsthe team were let down to let off steamwent and told everyone else what Id saidAcvitity1.Read the first letter and find out Bens problems and feelings.careless talklose
6、lipembarrassmentDisappointed by his behaviour,I said all this to my best friend.Im really angry with my friend.Embarrassed and ashamed,I cant concentrate on anything.social deathIm in a total mess here.apologize to your teammatecommunicating with each other clearlyrepeating what you saidmaking the s
7、ituation worsesay too muchthink first,speak laterresolving conflictsAcvitity2.Read the second letter and find out Agony Aunts suggestions.To apologizeTo communicateTo think twice FirstThenThirdShowing understandingGiving suggestionsGiving encouragementAcvitity2.Read the second letter and find out Ag
8、ony Aunts suggestions.Showing understandingGiving suggestionsGiving encouragement1.1.What is your understanding of the What is your understanding of the saying“Loose lips sink ships”?saying“Loose lips sink ships”?2.2.Do you know any similar sayings in Do you know any similar sayings in Chinese?Chine
9、se?言多必失 Saying things without thinking clearly may hurt others and yourself.If you speak too much about something,it might cause some troubles.Unguarded talk may give useful information to the enemy.无防备的谈话可能给敌人提供有用的信息Activity3.Now match the suggestions to Bens problems.the team were let down to let
10、off steamwent and told everyone else what Id saidapologize to your teammatecommunicating with each other clearlyrepeating what you saidmaking the situation worsesay too muchthink first,speak laterresolving conflictsABC123Who do you think is to blame?BenBens teammateBens best friendI was just letting
11、 off steam really,because I was so angry.He is a point guard,a key player,but he didnt do his best.He went and told everyone else what Id said.Draw a mind-map about Bens agony and solutions.Take a deep breath,calm down and raise your concerns in a professional way.Tell him directly and honestly that
12、 you were talking without thinking.Tell him youre angry but you want to move on.Work in pairs and answer the questions.1.What do you think of Agony Aunts advice?2.What other advice would you give to Ben?2.What other advice would you give to Ben?Do not complain about people.Thinking before jumping in
13、 with both feet.Think twice before you do.Friends first,competition second.Write a letter if you feel awkward to talk to him face to face.Step into their shoes.Show how you value your friendship.Always think for others.实用的实用的_;有用的有用的_;有效的有效的_;有建设性的有建设性的_;practicalusefuleffectiveconstructiveWork in p
14、airs and act it out.(适合基础班级)Ben:Agony Aunt,I met a problem recently.In a basketball match,.Then I.Unexpectedly my best friend.I feel.Agony Aunt:Thats so bad!Ben:I said those word just to.and I didnt expect.I was disappointed with.because.Agony Aunt:You shouldnt have said those words.But now you have
15、 to make it up.You should.You need to.and that means.Ben:I told my best friend.just to.Agony Aunt:Dont.when.,always remember.Ben:I felt.when i heard my best friend.Agony Aunt:As for your best friend.Go and tell him.Ben:Thank you so much!Now I know.I feel much better now.Work in groups and write down
16、 what Ben should say.(适合较好班级)1.What should Ben say to his teammate?2.What should Ben do or say to his friend?Im sorry for.Losing our last match.We need to work.and communicate with.I was talking without thinking.I wont Only by our joint efforts(共同努力)can we.Appreciation of the language.Ask for help1.
17、Disappointed by his behavior,I said all this to my best friend.2.Embarrassed and ashamed,I cant concentrate on anything.3.Faced with the above problems,I am anxious to get your help.对他的行为感到失望，我把这些全部告诉了我最好的朋友。感到既尴尬又羞愧，我做什么事都无法集中精力。面对以上的问题，我急切想要得到你的帮助。Now read Bens letter and find out what Bens agony
18、is and who he turns to for help.How to give advice?1.There is an old American saying,“Loose lips sink ships.”2.Heres what you need to do.First,apologize to Tell him directly and honestly that Then,talk to Thirdly,and perhaps most importantly,think about Dont say too much when Take a deep breath,calm
19、 down,and always remember3.If you,you will soon find everything works out.Appreciation of the language.Sentence structure to give advice.1.第一人称I advise you to.I suggest you that you(should).I suggest doing.2.第二人称You had better do.You are suggested to do.You are encouraged to do.You are supposed to do.3.无灵主语What you should do is that.It is important for you to do.Doing.is a good choice.A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of about each other.
