1、 Growing up can be difficult.Sometimes there may be misunderstanding between you and your parents.Growing up can be difficult.Sometimes there may be misunderstanding between you and your parents.If you are confused(困惑的困惑的)about it,what will you do?Ask for advice!Listen to five people asking for advi
2、ce,and complete sentences with words from the recording.1.His best friend has just started playing on the school _ team and seldom has time to see him.He feels quite _.2.Her father wants her to study maths and _ and work in a big company when she grows up.But she wants to be an _.footballlonelyscien
3、ceactress 3.His daughter just _ to do anything he tells her any more.4.His father never _ to anything he says.Then his father _ at him when he doesnt listen to him.5.She has an _ tomorrow.Shes feeling _ and cant go to sleep.It makes her very upset.refuseslistensshoutsexamworriedWhen asking for advic
4、e,you should state the problem _ and give only the _ Information.Some modal verbs are often used,such as _or _.necessarycanshouldWhen giving advice,you should understand the problem fully and show sympathy to the person.Advice often use modal verbs such as _ or _,phrases such as _,or imperative.Im s
5、orry to hear that.I hate it when that happens!I know just what you mean!shouldmustmake sureclearly20 OctoberIm so excited!Mum and Dad bought me a bicycle.16 OctoberIm very tired today.We had a Maths test and Im nervous about my results.Read the four diaries in the textbook and pick out the main poin
6、t of each one.Feeling:Feeling:Excited and happyTired afraid and nervous22 October 23 OctoberI failed the Maths test!Im so upset.All that worrying was for nothing.Im very happy today!Read the four diaries in the textbook and pick out the main point of each one.Feeling:Feeling:Upset and worriedHappy/G
7、lad 1.What is Liu Zhens main point in Para.1?2.How do the boys parents and grandparents treat him?3.What is Liu Zhens main point in Para.2?4.Why does Liu Zhen tolerate his son so far?5.What is Liu Zhen afraid that his son will do?6.What is the main piece of advice that Liu Zhen is looking for?Read t
8、he letter on P35,and answer the questions.1.His 15-year-old son refuses to do what he and his wife ask him to do.2.His parents treat him very well,and his grandparents buy him many things.3.His son is wasting valuable time during this important period in his life.4.He wants to prevent upsetting the
9、boys mother with an argument.5.He is afraid that his son will fail at school,or worse.6.He wants to know how he can help his son without harming their relationship.Task（2）Writing a letter of adviceM1 U2 By Jack YangBy Jack Yang1._ to do almost anything parents want.2.Being _ to his grandparents.3.Re
10、fusing to spend time _ _.Sons problems in para 1:Refusingrudewith parents A result of growing painsReasonSolutionBe patient,and it needs time.Your suggestions:I suggest Mr Liu should From my point of view,Mr Liu should1.Refusing to do _.2._ his time on DVDs and foreign music.3.Spending _ _ time eith
11、er on computer games or chatting on line.Sons problems in para 2:his homeworkWastingtoo muchAdviceReasonInfluence his future lifeZero-toleranceBut the problems about his study.Your suggestions:Without doubt,Mr Liu shouldIn my opinion,Mr Liu has to How to deal with it?Talk with each other calmlyFathe
12、rs worry in para 3:The way Mr Liu uses doesnt work well,and he worries the things will _ _.get worseYour advice:Im sure if Mr Liu can/has.,it will be.Im sure if Mr Liu can/has.,it will be.Understand more about each other The worry will disappear naturally Compare the two letters on Page 36,and decid
13、e which advice letter is better for the letter from Liu Zhen!And why?Task performanceThe first letter:Not goodReasons1.Too direct,and make Mr Liu embarrassed.2.Do not catch the main points.3.Give advice for something not mentioned in the letter.The second one:Well-organizedPara 4 Provide encourageme
14、ntProblems can be solvedPara 1 Show the reasonA common problem Insisting on Mr Lius ideaOffer supportPara 2Para 3Give advice A quiet talkA patient listenerThe rules for a letter of advice:A letter of advicethe main problem and its analysiscomfort and supportproper modal verbs or imperatives advice o
15、n mentioned problemsGroup work:Read the letter from Liu zhens son on page 37.Firstly,please find out the problems he has,and then analyze the reasons.Lastly,offer your proper advice.The problemsThe reasonsAdviceThe structure:Beginning:introduce the main problemBody:analyze the reason/give adviceEndi
16、ng:give encouragement Im sorry that you.(the main problem)Im writing to express my view about.(the main problem)Im glad to receive your letter about.(the main problem)The reason for your problem is that.(the reason)Here are a few suggestions.To begin with,.Besides,.Moreover,.Last but not the least,.
17、（Use can,must,should,./make sure./imperatives)I strongly believe that if.,you will.With.,the problem can be solved in the end.Dear Xiaowei,Many teenagers have difficulty getting along with their parents._ Both being a teenager and being a parent can be very difficult.However,dont give up.With a litt
18、le bit of patience and communication,many of these problems can be solved.Best wishes Dr.Fang Write a letter of advice to Liu Xiaowei.The beginning and the end have been given.Homework:Thank you for your appreciation!Page 37 ADear Xiaowei,Many teenagers have difficulty getting along with their paren
19、ts.This is a common problem.However,be patient with him.You say that he does not listen to you.Is this why you do not listen to him?Of course,your father will be angry when this happens!It is only natural.You must listen to your father-he loves you and wants the best for you.You should talk with you
20、r parents in order to explain how you feel,but you should give them a chance to speak first.I could be that your father doesnt listen to you because he doesnt think that you are listening to him.Reference It is true that you need time to be by yourself.However,part of being an adult is doing things
21、that you do not always want to do.You should make an effort to do what your parents ask.It will not hurt you.And of course,you must do your homework!Your studies are important to your future.Both being a teenager and being a parent can be very difficult.However,dont give up.With a little bit of patience and communication,many of these problems can be solved.Best wishes Dr.Fang
