1、第九讲第九讲 人际关系人际关系（Interpersonal relationships）1.People2.Social behaviors3.Getting together2022-11-192022-11-19Family membersFriendsNeighborsTeachers2022-11-19Family members（家庭成员）（家庭成员）interpersonal人际的人际的complex复杂的复杂的complicated复杂的、麻烦复杂的、麻烦的的profound深刻、深厚的深刻、深厚的quarrel吵架吵架pure纯粹的纯粹的affection感情；爱慕、感情；爱慕
2、、影响力影响力change改变改变cherish珍惜珍惜hurt伤害伤害 interpersonal：ntps()n()ladj.人际的；人与人之间的 inter(之间、相互)+personalinternet international complicated：kmplketdadj.难懂的，复杂的 com+plic(police)+ate+d“和警察一起吃饭，问题复杂了”complex：kmpleksadj.复杂的；合成的com（共同、一起）+pl（漂亮）+ex（前任）“和现女友一起遇到了漂亮的前任，情况就有点复杂了”2022-11-19 pure：pjadj.纯的；纯粹的；纯洁的；清白的
3、；纯理论的“普洱茶是纯的”quarrel：kwr()lvi.吵架；争论；挑剔n.吵架；反目；怨言吵架让人很“困扰”profound：prfandadj.深厚的；意义深远的；渊博的 pro（专家）+found（发现）意义深远的2022-11-19Gold cant bepureand man cant be perfect.affection：fek()nn.喜爱，感情；影响；感染“爱是有影响力的感情”change：ten(d)vt.改变；交换改变；交换n.变化；找回的零钱变化；找回的零钱vi.改变；兑换改变；兑换“嫦娥”改变了猪八戒的命运2022-11-19The only way to ob
4、tain happiness is that,cherishwhat you have got and forget what you havent got.cherish：ter vt.珍爱vt.怀有（感情等）；抱有（希望等）che（车）+rish+（瑞士）“瑞士的车很贵，要珍惜”hurt ht vt.使受伤；损害；使疼痛；使痛心2022-11-19Friends（朋友）（朋友）reliable可靠的可靠的honest诚实的诚实的humor幽默幽默polite有礼貌的有礼貌的humorous幽默的幽默的glance一瞥一瞥immediate立刻的立刻的initial最初的最初的首要的首要的i
5、mpression印象印象character性格；汉字；性格；汉字；人物人物adequate 胜任、充分胜任、充分trust 信赖信赖betray 背叛背叛recover 恢复恢复 reliable:adj.rlab()l可靠的；可信赖的n.可靠的人 rely“依赖”polite：platadj.有礼貌的，客气的；文雅的；上流的；优雅的警察（police）特有礼貌 2022-11-19 Never rely on love or the weather.Love is as changeable and unreliable as weather.honest：nst adj.诚实的，实在的；
6、可靠的；坦率的He is wise that is honest.The honest penny is better than the stolen dollar.humorous hjum()rs adj.诙谐的，幽默的；滑稽的，可笑的 humor“幽默”glance：glnsn.一瞥；一滑；闪光vi.扫视，匆匆一看；反光；瞥闪，瞥见“哥懒死”，看东西都不仔细看，只是一瞥2022-11-19All it took was one glanceNow all I ask is one chanceTo try to win your heartJust give me a chance to
7、 startIll show you it was meant to beTo be together is our destiny initial：nl adj.最初的；字首的 vt.用姓名的首字母签名 “以你首”首要的、最初的 immediate：midt adj.立即的；直接的；最接近的 im+media+te“我是美的呀，赶快来追我”impression：mpre()n n.印象；效果，影响；压痕，印记；感想 im（强调）+press+ion 压在脑海中形成印象 adequate：dkwt adj.充足的；适当的；胜任的“俺得夸他”，因为他能胜任工作 a+de+qu+ate“一个德国人
8、去吃，有充足的食物”2022-11-19A thousand words will not leave so deep animpressionas one deed.character：krktn.性格，品质；特性；角色；计字符vt.印，刻；使具有特征cha（插）+r（花）+act（表演）+er “头上插花表演的人性格很好”betray：btrevt.背叛；出卖；泄露（秘密）；露出迹象“被踹”，被别人背叛 trust：trstn.信任，信赖；责任；托拉斯vt.信任，信赖；盼望；赊卖给vi.信任，信赖；依靠“踹死他”，因为他不信任你 tru(e)+st(and)：站在真理一边，值得信赖 rec
9、over：re+cover “伤口重新被皮肤覆盖恢复”2022-11-19If the whole world betrays you,Im gonna betray the whole world for you.2022-11-19Neighbors（邻居）（邻居）contact接触接触kind-hearted善良的善良的encounter遇到、遇到、遭遇遭遇misfortune不幸不幸favor帮助、帮助、恩惠恩惠tolerate忍受、忍受、容忍容忍spare空余的空余的private私人的私人的space空间空间 contact：kntktn.接触，联系vt.使接触，联系vi.使接触，
10、联系“康泰克”接触过或与感冒的人联系的都要用2022-11-19contact lens 隐形眼镜If we can onlyencountereach other rather than stay with each other,then I wish we had never encountered.encounter：nkant;en-vt.遭遇，邂逅；遇到n.遭遇，偶然碰见vi.遭遇；偶然相遇遭遇事情，只能“硬抗它”misfortune：msftun;-t()nn.不幸；灾祸，灾难mis（错、不）+fortune（“佛疼你”，给你财富）“没私房钱”不幸 favor：favorite20
11、22-11-19Opportunities alwaysfavorthose who are prepared.spare：spevt.节约，吝惜；饶恕；分出，分让vi.饶恕，宽恕；节约 spa+re“业余时间热爱做SPA”tolerate：tlretvt.忍受；默许；宽恕“拖累人的”要忍受space：spesn.空间；太空；距离vi.留间隔 private：pravtadj.私人的；私有的；私下的n.列兵；二等兵 pri+v+ate“平日无吃的，因为无私人财产”2022-11-19 Teachers（老师）（老师）soul灵魂灵魂virtue美德美德regard看、注意；尊重看、注意；尊重a
12、ccording根据、依照根据、依照individual个人的个人的choose选择选择suitable适合的适合的characteristic特点特点comprehend理解、领会理解、领会grasp掌握、抓住掌握、抓住patient耐心的；病人耐心的；病人provide提供提供guidance指导指导 soul：sln.灵魂；心灵；精神；鬼魂“嗖”的一下灵魂出窍了 virtue：vtju;-tun.美德；优点；贞操；功效 vi+r+tu+e“六个人偷兔、鹅”这不是美德 regard:rgdn.注意；尊重；问候；凝视vt.注重，考虑；看待；尊敬；把看作；与有关 re(再次)+gard(en)
13、“再次去花园要注意花花草草”2022-11-19soul matesoul soupKnowledge is virtue.（Socrates）according：kdadj.相符的；一致的；相应的；和谐的；调和的adv.依照；根据；按照“俺靠定你了”依靠、依照 Judge not according to the appearance.individual：indi(印第安)+vidu(未丢)+al(l)“印第安人未丢掉全部独特的传统文化”characteristickrktrstkadj.典型的；特有的；表示特性的n.特征；特性；特色“性格有特点的”2022-11-19socialism
14、with Chinese characteristics choose：tuzvt.选择，决定vi.选择，挑选suitable：sutb()ladj.适当的；相配的“书特薄”合适的comprehend：kmprhendvt.理解；包含；由组成com(共同)+pre(向前)+hend(hand)“只有互相理解，才能握手共同向前”2022-11-19 You should choose the most suitable thing for you according to your needs.Reading comprehension grasp：grspn.抓住；理解；控制vt.抓住；领会
15、gras(s)+p(eople)“人要抓住救命稻草”patient：pe()ntadj.有耐性的，能容忍的n.病人；患者“陪身特”陪在病人身边要特有耐心 provide：prvadvt.提供；规定；准备；装备vi.规定；抚养；作准备 pro(专业)+vide(o)“提供专业的录像”guidance：gui+dance“指导龟跳舞”2022-11-192022-11-19本节核心词汇 change spare regard change：A change of leadership alone will not be enough.We cannot change the past.spare：
16、Weve got a spare bedroom,if youd like to stay.My sister likes reading in her spare time.regard：I regard creativity both as a gift and as a skill.She regarded him curiously for a moment.2022-11-19复习巩固2022-11-19Gold cant bepureand man cant be perfect.2022-11-19The only way to obtain h a p p i n e s s
17、i s that,cherishwhat you have got and forget what you havent got.The honest penny is better than the stolen dollar.2022-11-19All it took was one glanceNow all I ask is one chanceTo try to win your heartJust give me a chance to startIll show you it was meant to beTo be together is our destinyA thousa
18、nd words will not leave so deep animpressionas one deed.Neverrelyon love or the weather.Love is as changeable and unreliable as weather.2022-11-19If the whole world betrays you,Im gonna betray the whole world for you.2022-11-19Opportunities alwaysfavorthose who are prepared.I f w e c a n onlyencount
19、ereach other rather than stay with each other,then I wish we had never encountered.2022-11-19 Knowledge is virtue.（Socrates）socialism with Chinese characteristics2022-11-19 You should choose the most suitable thing for you according to your needs.2022-11-19Greeting&introducingAsking for permission&h
20、elpGiving thanks2022-11-19 Greeting&introducing（问候与介绍）（问候与介绍）social社会的社会的greeting问候问候self-introduction自我介绍自我介绍conversation交谈、对话交谈、对话communicationn.交流交流communicatev.交流交流conventional传统、惯常的传统、惯常的offend冒犯冒犯 social：s()ladj.社会的，社交的；群居的社会上的女的都“so瘦”greeting:gritn.问候，招呼；祝贺v.致敬，欢迎（greet的现在分词）conversation：knvs
21、e()nn.交谈，会话；社交；交往，交际；会谈；（人与计算机的）人机对话 con(共同)+vers(说话)+ation2022-11-19听力考试中听力考试中Conversation 1Conversation 2 communication英kmjunke()n美k,mjunkenn.通讯，通信通信；交流2022-11-19We integrate,you communicate.我们集大成，您超越自我。（三菱电工）我们集大成，您超越自我。（三菱电工）communicate：com(共同)+muni(慕尼黑)+cat+e “共同与慕尼黑的猫和鹅交流”conventional:knven()n
22、()ladj.符合习俗的，传统的；常见的；惯例的 convention：con+ven+tion“共同纹身”习俗offend：fendvt.冒犯；使不愉快vi.违反；进攻；引起不舒服2022-11-19Faithful wordsoffendthe ears.off+end 被冒犯了，所以“关掉手机+结束联系”2022-11-19Giving Thanks（感谢）（感谢）suffer遭受遭受suffering痛苦痛苦deep深厚的深厚的receive收到收到aid帮助、援助帮助、援助assistance帮助帮助bottom底部底部warmth温暖温暖offer提供；主动做提供；主动做meanw
23、hile同时同时 suffer：sfvt.遭受；忍受；经历vi.遭受，忍受；受痛苦；经验；受损害遭受“杀罚”suffering aid：edn.援助；帮助；助手；帮助者vt.援助；帮助；有助于有“爱的”就要伸出援助之手2022-11-19.He who fears tosuffer,suffersfrom fear.Aidyourself and Heaven willaidyou.receive：rsiv vt.收到；接待；接纳vi.接收re(再次)+ceive(“塞我”)再次塞给我收到礼物 assistance：sst()nsn.援助，帮助；辅助设备 ass(驴)+is+tance(“疼死
24、”)驴是疼死的无人援助 bottom：btmn.底部；末端；臀部；尽头adj.底部的“煲汤”deep：dipn.深处；深渊adj.深的；低沉的；深奥的adv.深入地；深深地；迟绵羊(sheep)掉进深(deep)海里不停地哭泣(weep)He who would climb the ladder must begin at thebottom.Still waters run deep.warmth：wmn.温暖；热情；激动 warm+th meanwhile：minwaladv.同时，其间n.其间，其时 offer：fvt.提供；出价；试图n.提议；出价；意图；录取通知书“卧佛”寺求offe
25、r off+er 儿子主动提出关闭手机2022-11-19Please offer your seat to anyone in need.当（while）说一句话时同时意味（mean）着别的意思。Asking for permission&help（请求允许与帮助）（请求允许与帮助）discipline纪律；学科纪律；学科regulation规章规章approve批准、赞同批准、赞同allow允许允许permitv.允许允许permissionn.允许允许deliver递交；发表递交；发表reason理由理由aim目标目标 discipline：dsplnn.学科；纪律；训练；惩罚vt.训练
26、，训导；惩戒 regulation：regjle()nn.管理；规则；校准adj.规定的；平常的 re+gu+la+tion “阿姨姑姑拉婶婶来制定规则”approve：pruvvt.批准；赞成；为提供证据vi.批准；赞成；满意app+rove(“入伍”)阿婆婆赞成儿子入伍2022-11-19disc+ip+line“看唱片需要ip和网线”遵守网络纪律 permission：pm()nn.允许，许可 per+mission 每个任务都得到允许 permit：per+MIT 每个进入麻省理工的人都需要得到许可 allow：lavt.允许；给予；认可vi.容许；考虑 al+low 都低头同意、允许
27、2022-11-19Liberty is the right to do whatever the lawspermit.Montesquieu deliver：dlvvt.交付；发表；递送；释放；给予（打击）；给接生 deli+v+er 将信件交给得力的五个儿子去递送 reason：riz()n n.理由；理性；动机 r+Eason 人们喜欢Eason陈奕迅是有原因的aim：“爱美”，所以目标是变美2022-11-19Affection is blindreason.2022-11-19本节核心词汇 offer suffer permit allow offer：He offered me
28、an apple.Peter offered to teach them swimming.He had refused several excellent job offers.suffer：Man will suffer many disappointments in his quest for truth.He is suffering from cancer.Syria will suffer most from this change of situation.2022-11-19 permit：The guards permitted me to bring my camera.H
29、is illness would not permit that he(should)work hard.Try to go out for a walk at lunch time,if the weather permits.allow：He is not allowed to stay out late.These glasses allow you to see the film in three-D.Please allow 28 days for delivery.2022-11-19复习巩固2022-11-19听力考试中听力考试中Conversation 1Conversatio
30、n 22022-11-19.He who fears tosuffer,suffersfrom fear.Still waters run deep.We should never remember the benefits we have offered nor forget the favor received.2022-11-19Liberty is the right to do whatever the lawspermit.Montesquieu2022-11-19Affection is blindreason.2022-11-19Making plans or arrangem
31、entsDate&appointmentEvent2022-11-19 Making plans or arrangements（制定计划或安排）（制定计划或安排）arrangement安排安排broad广泛的广泛的rough粗略的；粗略的；粗糙、粗俗粗糙、粗俗的的framework框架框架concrete具体的具体的混凝土混凝土detail细节细节consult咨询咨询consultant顾问顾问 arrangement：ren(d)m()ntn.布置；整理；准备 ar+ran+ge+ment“矮人让哥安排门童”broad：brdadj.宽的，辽阔的；显著的；大概的 b+road“柏油马路”
32、宽阔的、宽泛的 rough：rf adj.粗糙的；粗略的；粗野的；艰苦的；未经加工的 rou+gh(光滑)肉光滑不粗糙2022-11-19flower arrangementTake theroughwith the smooth.framework：fremwkn.框架，骨架；结构，构架 frame+work concrete：kkritadj.混凝土的；实在的，具体的；有形的vi.凝结con+cre(a)te“共同创造”混凝土 detail：ditel n.细节，详情de(加强)+tail(尾巴)加强细枝末节2022-11-19 Details determine success or f
33、ailure.2022-11-19 Date&appointment（约会（约会/约定）约定）accept接受接受specific具体、明确具体、明确的的promise承诺承诺reject拒绝拒绝date约会；日约会；日期期appointment约会；委约会；委派派appointv.任命，任命，委派；约委派；约定定desire渴望渴望intend试图试图 date：detn.日期；约会；年代；枣椰子 desire：de+sir+e“德国的先生渴望吃鹅肉”2022-11-19If the eyes do no admire,the heart will not desire.appointmen
34、t：ap(加强)+point(指点、指定)+ment(名词后缀)ap(阿婆)+point(指)+ment(门童)：阿婆指着门童，委派工作v.appoint intend：ntendvt.打算；想要；意指vi.有打算 in+ten+d“在十岁时就要做打算”accept：kseptvt.接受；承认；承担；承兑；容纳“俺可舍不得”接受2022-11-19I can accept failure;everyone fails at something.But I cant accept not trying.specific：spsfk adj.特殊的，特定的；明确的；详细的；药 具有特效的speci
35、(al)+fic“特殊的+非它不可”特定的、明确的 promise：prmsn.许诺，允诺；希望vt.允诺，许诺；给人以的指望或希望 pro(提前)+mise(“妹子”)提前向妹子许诺reject：rdekt vt.拒绝；排斥；抵制；丢弃n.被弃之物或人；次品re(再次)+ject(“借给他”)拒绝再次借给他2022-11-19Event（大事）（大事）event大事大事cooperate合作合作joint联合的；关节联合的；关节project工程工程insist坚持坚持admirable值得钦佩的值得钦佩的abandon抛弃、放弃抛弃、放弃seek寻求寻求division分开；部门；除法分开
36、；部门；除法reasonable合理的合理的 event：ventn.事件，大事；项目；结果“一问他”就出大事 project：prdektvt.设计；计划；发射；放映n.工程；计划；事业 pro(提前)+ject(“借给他”)提前借给他工程款 admirable：dm()rb()ladj.令人钦佩的；极好的；值得赞扬的“俺的米弱爆”，并不值得羡慕2022-11-19 joint：dntn.关节；接缝；接合处，接合点；adj.共同的；连接的；联合的，合办的vt.连接，贴合；接合；使有接头 join+t“加入他”，联合 cooperate：kpretvi.合作，配合；协力 co(共同)+oper
37、ate(操作)cooper+ate 在mini cooper里吃饭需要合作开车 insist：nsst vt.坚持，强调 ins(饮食)+is+t“健康饮食是特别需要坚持的”2022-11-19 abandon：bnd()nn.狂热；放任vt.遗弃；放弃 a+bandon(板凳)区区一个板凳是可以放弃的 seek：sikvt.寻求；寻找；探索；搜索vi.寻找；探索；搜索 see+k(看)寻找2022-11-19Nothingseek,nothing find.Hide and Seek reasonable：riz()nb()ladj.合理的，公道的；通情达理的 reason+able“能给出
38、理由的就是合理的”division：dv()nn.数除法；部门；分割；师（军队）；赛区“弟委任”各部门经理2022-11-19The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.2022-11-19本节核心词汇 intend accept insist abandon intend：I didnt intend coming to Germany to work.He intends to transfer the
39、 property to my son.This money is intended for the development of the tourist industry.accept：Eventually,Sam persuaded her to accept an offer of marriage.I dont think they would accept that view.2022-11-19 insist：If you insist on leaving now,please go ahead.We insist upon a definite answer.He insist
40、s that she go with him.abandon：The captain gave the order to abandon the ship.People were shouting and cheering with abandon.We are scared to abandon ourselves to our feelings in case we seem weak or out of control.2022-11-19复习巩固2022-11-19Take theroughwith the smooth.Details determine success or fai
41、lure.2022-11-19If the eyes do no admire,the heart will not desire.2022-11-19I can accept failure;everyone fails at something.But I cant accept not trying.Michael Jordan2022-11-192022-11-19The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.
