1、On interpersonal relationshipDoraThe IGNORED The IGNORED moment“Im so ashamed to tell others about this thing for they might think that I am nothing but being dramatic(夸张夸张).This seeming incident,however,has upset me deeply for a long time.A week ago,I updated my moment(朋友圈朋友圈)to celebrate the 5th y
2、ears friendship with Katie.I had thought that she would like my moment and comment with love.However,The gift that I received was her indifference(冷冷漠漠).She liked the moments before and after it,but ignored my special moment,WHY?I dont understand.When I asked her feelings about my moment later,she s
3、aid it was funny thoughtlessly(草率的草率的).At that moment I could feel a sudden surge of anger and she didnt deserve my sincere friendship.I have avoided her for a few days but she acted normally even without realizing what she did wrongly.Im really at a loss what to do.The real problemRead and DiscussW
4、hat will you respond to help her?01Analyze and plan02RESPONSES：“I dont think your friend is wrong.Instead,I think you are too selfish.Everyone has their own personalities.Maybe your friend was too shy to do as you did,so it is understandable that she didnt like your moment.In a word,youd better resp
5、ect others choices,rather than put your own thoughts on them.If you are still uncomfortable about this incident,there is no pointing in continuing this relationship.“In my opinion,having a frank talk to her before giving up on her is a good idea.You should know about the reason for this incident.You
6、 have been friends for 5 years,which is a long time.Dont let anger take over,but think it through.After all,it is difficult to find a true friend.1018124First of all,from my own experience nothing is better than face-to-face communication,which can effectively solve your problem.Chances are that she
7、 missed your moment unintentionally but when you asked her about it,in order not to upset you,she made up a comment.Keep in mind that true friends wont give up on each other and effective communication will only bring you two closer.you.StructureExpressing your understandingSuggesting solutionsStati
8、ng the result you wish to see“The beginningIm sorry to know that youre having such a bad time at the moment.I quite understand how you are feeling now and there is no need to worry about it so much.I hope the following suggestions will be of help to you.The bodyFirst of all,from my own experience no
9、thing is better than face-to-face communication,which can effectively solve your problem.Chances are that she missed your moment unintentionally but when you asked her about it,in order not to upset you,she made up a comment.Keep in mind that true friends wont give up on each other and effective com
10、munication will only bring you two closer.I will be more than happy to see improvements in your friendship.Everything will turn out all right in the end and you two will surely fix the small problem.The endingThe structure of a letter of adviceA letter of advice“Dear XX：(expressing understanding)_.(
11、finding the problem and suggesting solutions)_.(stating the result you wish to see)_.XXYours.A letter of advice“Write a draft and evaluate03A letter of advice“假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike 的来信，内容如下：Dear Li HuaRecently Tom,my best friend since when we were in junior high school,has been avoiding me on purpose.I
12、 dont know why.I have tried to talk with him several times,but in vain.I dont want to lose him.What should I do?Yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右 的回信，内容包括如下要点：1 表示同情；2 给出建议；3 表达希望(problem)It is important to check your writing after you finish.You should especially check if there are any mistakes in terms of:P
13、unctuation Spelling Grammar Choice of words Style StructureSelf-reviewWhat mistakes do you find in your writing?How can you correct them?Peer reviewWhat comments does your partner give on your writing?How can you improve your writing?假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike 的来信，内容如下：Dear Li HuaRecently Tom,my best friend
14、 since when we were in junior high school,has been avoiding me on purpose.I dont know why.I have tried to talk with him several times,but in vain.I dont want to lose him.What should I do?yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右 的回信，内容包括如下要点：表示同情；2 给出建议；3 表达希望Im sorry to learn that you are being troubled by your frie
15、nds attempts to keep away from you.Thanks for your trust in me.A sudden absence of closeness with friends does discourage people and I well understand it.As for solutions to your dilemma,here Id like to share with you my ideas.突然与朋友不亲近确实会让人气馁，我很理解这一点。假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike 的来信，内容如下：Dear Li HuaRecently T
16、om,my best friend since when we were in junior high school,has been avoiding me on purpose.I dont know why.I have tried to talk with him several times,but in vain.I dont want to lose him.What should I do?yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右 的回信，内容包括如下要点：表示同情；2 给出建议；3 表达希望Im sorry to learn that you are being trou
17、bled by your friends attempts to keep away from you.Thanks for your trust in me.A sudden absence of closeness with friends does discourage people and I well understand it.As for solutions to your dilemma,here Id like to share with you my ideas.突然与朋友不亲近确实会让人气馁，我很理解这一点。假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike 的来信，内容如下：Dear
18、 Li HuaRecently Tom,my best friend since when we were in junior high school,has been avoiding me on purpose.I dont know why.I have tried to talk with him several times,but in vain.I dont want to lose him.What should I do?yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右 的回信，内容包括如下要点：表示同情；2 给出建议；3 表达希望Assignment“Polish up your writing and rewrite it after class.A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.Thank you
